Tablescapes continue by leap year and bounds!

February tablescape's theme is a romantic tea time with a collection of "united nations" serving ware

For the new year, I declared I would post a new tablescape each month and got off to a roaring start in January, putting to use some lovely family heirlooms that had been packed away for years. I was looking forward to February's dining tableau with a theme of a romantic tea time and, like last month, continuing to bring out the beautiful, but underutilized, serving ware.

Well, like many new year's resolutions, all the enthusiasm of January can get easily derailed by February.   In my case, most of the "derails" were good ones. Wedding-planning events and tea talks kept us very busy. But, throw in a few unexpected events life throws at you  just to remind you that you can't control or plan for everything and February was coming to a quick close without a tablescape in sight.

But, then here comes Leap Year to the rescue. Today, I assembled my romantic tablescape for a tea tete-a-tete. Tea for two - and for 2020 tablescapes, we're two for two!

Aside from the pleasing aesthetic tablescapes bring to a repast, there's just a lot of good memories that come from assembling such an eclectic collection. Antiques next to almost-new-pieces found a common thread in being adorned with tiny pink flowers. The Royal Albert "rose confetti" tea set my husband gave me for Christmas three years ago flanks my grandmother's pink and gold compote dish (Hinode, Japan) which is the perfect place to house colorful macarons.

Eclectic collection of china from around the world sharing a common thread of pink floral decorations

Today's white luncheon plates, framed in small rosebuds, also belonged to my grandmother and she loved these dishes. They belonged to her friend's mother and, after she passed away, the plates were gifted to my grandmother. These sat like trophies on her pantry shelf.  When I was little, I remember going to that pantry to snag a few forbidden sugar cubes and look up at the colorful gallery of cups, saucers, bowls and dishes. These plates were made by C.T. Altwasser, a porcelain company in Silesia (a region that is now part of Germany, Czech Republic and Poland).

To round out my United Nations tablescape there were two floral tea cups from England:  one,  a Rosina pattern cup that my mom bought me while we were "antiquing" locally over twenty years ago and the other, an Ansley bone china cup that I treated myself to at the Antique Depot in Lewiston just a few summers ago.

Thanks to Leap Year, I am not only  on course for my monthly tablescape, but this extra day allowed me to spend a delightful afternoon curating both serving dishes and memories.

Seems the solution to meeting deadlines is to add an extra day. Too bad it only comes once every four years. . .

Happy February 29th!!

Tuesday Tea and Tomes: Little Women by Louisa May Alcott. (Don't wait for the Zombie edition!!)

If there's anything I've learned from movie adaptations of classic literature it is that, good, bad or awful, they do introduce a great book to a new generation (think "Pride and Prejudice and Zombies")  - or, in my case, a fine novel to an "okay boomer".

Although family and friends have recommended it as "their favorite book", it wasn't until Greta Gerwig's recently released "Little Women" movie, that I finally moved "Little Women" the book to the top of my reading wish list. I asked for the Louisa May Alcott tome for Christmas and my daughter, Rachel, granted that wish and placed a newly minted copy in my Christmas stocking.  (Such an appropriate time to receive it, as the book begins on Christmas day for the March sisters.)

It is large book, consisting of 500 pages, but it's a quick read and a page-turner. Written originally for the "young adult" market, this tale of four sisters in New England, circa Civil War era, has broad appeal in it's everyday-ness of sibling relationships and that journey that takes most of us from young "id" to adult "ego".

Many of us are acquainted with the March sister's names -  Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy - and if not so familiar with the storylines (and without giving away any major spoiler alerts to those who, like me, waited a long time to read this!), at least have a vague notion that one sister is pretty, one is a writer, one is frail and one is a bit selfish.  Certainly, that describes any nuclear family - or, for that matter - any one of us at some point in our lives.

A favorite book for some,  but I had to wait for the 2019 movie to get this on my reading list.

There are morals to the stories and inspiring tales of independence, but, at the core, it's a tale of family relationships, unvarnished in spite of polite manners and "good breeding".  Who can't identify with splurging on frivolities, like Amy's limes or Meg's extravagant dress, without thinking of the consequences? Who hasn't seen someone else get the special reward deigned to be yours and retreated, like Jo, for a good cry and some self-pity?

Of course, for this Janeite, there's definitely parallels to be drawn between Austen and Alcott. Both women wrote best about the society's they were a party to, although often on the periphery of the genteel society.  Each made money from their works, a practice not always met with approval, especially for Jane Austen's time. And, both women remained independent and single by choice. Again, somewhat radical for the 1800's.

I am now down the Alcott information-gathering rabbit hole, which started with Wikipedia and launched a few biographies purchased on-line. And, of course, I'll see Greta Gerwig's Little Women movie with, what appears to have, modern-day sensibilities.

Good, bad or awful, the recent theater release got me to where I needed to be. If you haven't read this classic - or need a refresh - I highly recommend spending some time with the March sisters and their "coming of age" tales. Please don't wait until "Little Women and Zombies" comes out before taking action!

Megxit leaves Royals a bit "harried": People, chefs and Royal-philes weigh in on Meghan and Harry

 This Royal-phile/"source", armed with Harry and Meghan souvenirs and People Magazine, weighs in on Megxit.

In 2020, England will not only exit the European Union, but experience the exit of 2018's most celebrated union of Royal and Hollywood. Brexit and Megxit:  both filled with angst, controversy, divisiness and, maybe just a bit of "isn't this over yet?".

Met and interviewed Harry's uncle in 2014

Last summer, had tea  in NYC - same as Meghan 

As to the latter regarding Harry and Meghan, we are most assured that there's so much more to come. As a "royal-phile" who has visited both Buckingham Palace and Kensington Palace, personally interviewed Harry's uncle, Lord Charles Spencer, as well as chef to both Queen Elizabeth and Princess Di, Darren McGrady, had tea at Manhattan's Lauderee, where Meghan met up with gal pals last year and, as one who has poured over numerous English history books as well as last week's People Magazine, I'm ready to get into the public forum of the Megxit bruhaha and opine as a my own self-appointed "source".

Visiting Kensington Palace in 2011 with daughter, Rachel

It seems such a short while ago - and that's because it was less than two years ago - that the marriage of Harry and Meghan had many of us transfixed to the royal wedding television coverage (oh, and I'll add here, that some of us were on television to discuss the television coverage) .

On Fox 2 News - part of The Townsend Hotel Royal Wedding Celebration, 2018

It was union of movie star Beauty and princely Beast, reminiscent of Grace Kelly and Prince Rainer's  celebrated wedding over sixty years ago. A beautiful American actress marries a Royal - but "fast forward" to 2020, and this bride and groom are a cheeky sort, independent and not embracing the will of the "firm".

What does all of this mean? Titles are stripped, but a "transition period" is being worked out with Buckingham Palace's, CEO.  According to the Queen's statement, issued January 13th, while she and the family are supportive of Harry and Meghan's desire to create a new life, she also acknowledges,  "these are complex matters for my family to resolve. . ."  (And you thought political debates at your Thanksgiving family dinners were tough. . . !)

In front of the home of "the firm" with husband Chris, Rachel and son, Matt, 2015

One of my favorite citing's from last week's People Magazine article "Harry and Meghan Walk Away" is from royal biographer, Ingrid Seward.  She observes that this crisis is unlike any other the royal family has encountered in modern day. For the first time, a prominent royal family member is walking away not amid scandal!

(That reminds me, I forgot to add to my royal-phile credentials, "Binge-watcher of The Crown". The Royals come from a long line of sensational, scandalous behavior. Not-so-long ago, the Queen's sister was prohibited from marrying a divorced man, but extra-marital affairs were accommodated. To modern-day sensibilities, that's not only incredibly hypocritical, but down right absurd.)

Royal Chef, Darren McGrady not a fan of Megxit

Royal Chef, McGrady feels Meghan is self-centered and manipulative. In a series of tweets on Twitter, he states not only would Princess Di be furious with Harry, but that she thought him a bit of a flake.  One tweet states: "I remember Princess Diana in the kitchen at Kensington Palace talking about her boys - 'William is deep like his father. Harry is an airhead like me'".

A bit saucy, but this is from a man who specializes in sauces.

Maybe tides will turn for Harry and Meghan once a new royal personality emerges that's  even more controversial. As a recent article in The Atlantic points out, Kate was not initially viewed so lovingly. Early on, she and her sister Pippa were referred to as the "wisteria sisters - highly decorative, terribly fragrant and with a ferocious ability to climb".

As for this royal-phile, I feel that while the royals are truly the epitome of the greatest accomplishment of  their life being achieved by "accident of birth", there is really something fascinating about those less-than-one-percenters who live publicly like a fairy tale, but privately like the most outlandish scripts of "Days of Our Lives".

Happier times for the young couple. Well wishers from our cruise staff on the Queen Mary

Is it a having-ones -wedding-cake-and-eat-it-all-too mentality for Meghan and Harry to partake and embrace in  all the pomp and circumstances of a lavish, expensive and highly public marriage ceremony only to eschew some of the strings that come with serving as a part of the royal family?  Yes, I think it is, but I also understand that the press and the firm can be ruthless, unkind and treacherous. (and full disclaimer - I had a lot of fun and did quite well as a benefactor of Meghan and Harry's nuptials).

Wedding souvenirs. Tea, biscuits and People will help!

Currently, we're a house divided - my husband gives the marriage one more year and I think they'll hang for awhile. Not sure if it will be happily ever after, but, with my souvenir mugs and biscuit tin and next week's People Magazine, this "source" will be sure to stay vigilant on the watch!

January is Hot Tea Month: Warm up with some tea facts and make some tea plans!

Hot tea month - perfect time to warm up with a cup, although the tea garden in January can also serve it up iced!

January is the perfect time for Hot Tea Month:  cooler outside temperatures welcome a tasty warm-up in a cup and - it being the start of the new year with resolutions -  an opportunity to lay out some tea plans to "ink" in our calendars.

But, before we get too far into the future, let's take a  look at past and present in the world of tea.

According to The Tea Association of the US, the estimated value of the tea industry in America is "nearly $13 billion - up almost $11 billion since 1990."  While we drink that in - and that's a lot - a few other "tea-bits" to consider with respect to tea consumption in America:

• US is the third largest tea importer, after Russia and Pakistan
• On any given day, half our country's population drinks tea
• Regionally, the South and Northeast have the greatest number of tea drinkers
• Approximately, 75 - 85% of tea consumed is iced tea
• Eighty-seven percent of Millennials drink tea (this group is okay, says a Boomer!)

Reasons for this upsurge in the past three decades is largely attributed to health benefits and lifestyle changes. 

87% of Millennials drink tea, and that's okay with this Boomer

So, if the tragectory continues, and we here at BTS are sure it will, we have some suggestions for planning out your "tea year" during "Hot Tea Month":

• Try a new tea room
• Visit a favorite tea room and write a new or updated review
• Text an old friend and set up a tea date
• Set a tea table at home with your own heirloom/vintage tea pots, tea cups and assorted accroutrements 
• Make a fresh pot of loose leaf tea and start a new book

Full disclosure, we've already got these on our calendar. We'll update as we check off our list.

If any readers would like to share one of these activities with a picture, please send to barb@barbsteashop.com and we'd love to share them on our blog.

In the meantime, Happy Hot Tea Month!

January Tablescape: Vintage heirlooms debut after years in storage!

Fine Irish linen, Waterford, silverware and heirloom china, some unused for over sixty years!

Sterling silver, Waterford glasses, Irish linens - they're not just for staying in storage anymore!

In my last blog on trends for 2020, I noted tablescapes were "in" and that I'd post a new tablescape every month. To maintain at least one New Year's resolution, I'm keeping up with the start of that commitment today - and with a tablescape that kick's off another resolution I've promised myself to honor:  using those fancy items that wait for a "special occasion".

Almost-quarterly-gourmet dinner club enjoy great food, accoutrements

This weekend, we entertained good friends for a delightful repast, it being our turn of the almost-quarterly-gourmet-dinner-club. Although I'm the only one of the five members who isn't a five-star chef, my contribution/passion is setting a fine table.

It being a new year and with my goal to give old things a new beginning,  I put to use items never or rarely used, including an Irish linen tablecloth and Waterford crystal glasses, sixty-six and thirty years old respectively!

The tablecloth was a wedding gift to my husband's parents, over sixty years ago, and my mother-in-law gave it to me, still in the original box, at least twenty years ago. Apprehension to use something so delicate and in pristine condition, as well as time spent for proper upkeep, held me back. But, it's bringing joy to no one, tucked away in a closet.

Family heirlooms need to get out more!

Also marking its debut outside the china cabinet, were six Waterford crystal wine glasses my friend, Loretta, purchased on my behalf when she went to Ireland over thirty years ago. For three decades, these sparkling vessels sat behind glass, bearing their trademark green sticker. But, it was time for them to come out of the closet as well.

In addition to the newbies, I also curated my grandmother's gold-trimmed dinner plates and my mom's silverware for the table. They, too, need to get out more.

Bringing out the old and dear does come with a cost, however. The Irish linen tablecloth -after a quick spin in the "very, very delicate" setting on the washer with a splash of Woolite - caused me to spend almost two hours of "vintage pressing" with a steam iron.

The silver, china and crystal were all hand-washed and dried, adding another hour-plus to tablescape prep. Oh, and polishing my mom's brass candlesticks took a few minutes more.

I should add, too, that the dinner my husband cooked, was amazing! Swiss fondue, followed by sous-vided carrots, roasted potatoes and venison seared in bacon fat were worthy companions to the heirloom serving collection.

Dinner menu worthy of any tablescape!

Tablescape timetable, net results:

• Ironing Irish linen tablecloth:               two hours
• Washing crystal and china:                   one hour
• Polishing silver and brass:                    one hour
• Joy in sharing family treasures:           memories that last forever

Ring in the new year with items that never get old: good friends, good food and beautiful tablescapes!

In and Out List for the new year: What's hot and what's not to kick off the roaring 2020's.

Dogs of honor are in, "Cats" the movie is out.

This upcoming year will kick off what may be another decade of "roaring twenties".  In 2020, we'll have a presidential election which, like style décor experts predict in home fashions, there will be little "neutral" territory. Expect a lot from both sides of the aisle, but also a change in how parties come down the aisle - specifically, "bridal parties" for the latter.

Inspired by "Hello, 2020" (Detroit Free Press, December 27, 2019) and the WSJ's "Top 6 Interior-Design Trends for 2020", along with BTS' humble and plentiful opinions, we shine the light on what's in and what's out for the new year.

Add gray tea towels to a white kitchen

Kusmi's first white tea, deliciously in.

In:          Dark blues. Classic Blue and Naval are the 2020 colors of the year. Ahoy, mateys, we'll be back to gray next year.

Out:       Gray - again, although, this time the style guru's mean it. (except for tea towels).

In:         White tea. We're particularly fond of Kusmi Tea's tea blanc.  This is Kusmi's first white tea and it's delicious with notes of rose and raspberry.

Out:      White kitchens - Again. . .  again! But, white kitchen with gray tea towels from Copenhagen, gets you  back "in".

Tiaras, not just for weekends anymore!

Bow ties are in again in 2020!

In:        Tiaras and bow ties! Not just for royal affairs. Great for weddings, home parties or  movie theaters.

Out:    Yoga pants. Except for yoga or the gym.  And, we love Lulu Lemon for that!

The Willard Hotel in DC. Lobby for more afternoon tea

In:  Election year!  This year we're lobbying for more afternoon teas at The Willard in DC!

Out:  We'll see.   ; )

Downton Abbey cookbook based on 1920's reality TV

In:         The Official Downton Abbey Cookbook. A tome filled with history, pictures and lots of recipes from the other roaring twenties "reality" TV show.

Out:       In the Kitchen with Kris:  A Kollection of Kardashian-Jenner Family Favorites.  Some may applaud the  klever use of the "k" to replace the "c",  but we've been keeping up with these folks since 2007. It's been a recipe for disaster for over a decade.  We say K'enough!

Tiaras for evening wear or DA cosplay

In:         Downton Abbey movie. Rumors are swirling that there may be a sequel! Perhaps a Trilogy:  "The Crawleys Awaken", "The Last Footman", and "Rise of the Tourism".

Out:       The Star Wars Trilogy. . . for now.

In:         Baby Yoda

Out:      Baby shark.  There is no try, only do do do do do do do

First Downton Abbey tea of the year at Meadow Brook Hall

In:  Downton Abbey teas!  Host one of your own with the aid of the  DA Cookbook OR join us in 2020 for DA tea talks at lots of great venues! Our first DA-inspired tea is this February at Meadow Brook Hall. For future DA (and other!) BTS teas, watch our events page on the Barb's Tea Service website.

Astors still visible  in New York today

Gilded Age exhibit at the Biltmore

In:    Gilded Age teas!  Still in and BTS has a lot of new tales to tell from travels from the Biltmore to New York City.  Stayed tuned to the  BTS website. It's gilded, Jerry, it's gilded!

Out:  No tea talks are out in 2020, only in!

Say "yes" to the dress and dog of honor and "no" to Cats!

In:  Dogs and cats in weddings.

Out: "Cats" the movie. Let's stop it before it trilogizes!

Gilded Age table at Biltmore

BTS will display one new tablescape each month!

In:  Tablescapes captured by iPhones. BTS is committed to one fantastic tablescape a month and we'll upload photos.  Watch for upcoming blog posts!

Out: Phoning-in table settings. With just a few extras, like fanciful, folded napkins or the addition of the fish knife and fork (that is, if you are serving fish!), you send an unspoken message to your guests that they were worth the added effort.

Zen dens and tea garden void of clutter

In:  Zen Dens, Tea Gardens and other designated spaces for meditation and refuge.

Out:  Clutter.  Seriously, when was this ever in?  I keep waiting. In trend lists over the years it always shows up as "out". If it ever gets to be trendy, my home office space will be ready!

Multi-purpose pillows can light up your life.

In:  Multi-function pillows.  If a pillow is going to just sit on your sofa most of time, make it functional as well as decorative. We're quite fond of this moose-and-woods themed pillow that lights up the way to the couch.

Out:  More than six, four, two decorative pillows on a sofa. Either your guests are forced to sit on the edge of the sofa to accommodate the pile up or they toss the stuffed menagerie on the floor.  Only exception, if the pillows offer more in the way of services, like lighting up or providing current football scores.

In:  Etiquette. Once again, good manners never go out of style! May we suggest BTS' "Twelve Dining Essentials:  Formal Dining and Tea Time".

Out:  Not knowing where to place your fish fork and knife!

Midwestern good-bye, complete with hand-on-doorknob talk and many hugs

In:  Midwestern Goodbyes.  No one escapes quickly. Like a tasty, muli-layered dip, there are seven stages ranging from "welp" to "hand on doorknob conversation".  And, like Olaf, we're a fan of warm hugs inbetween.  My daughter shared this "recipe" with me last year and I loved it so much, my sister-in-law made it into a wall hanging., Oh, yah, this is how we say farewell to any guests as they are trapped in the hallway on their way "out".

Out:  In a Midwestern good-bye, any "out" is going to last awhile, so you might as well hold off starting the car just yet.


As we see 2019 out, we want to thank all of you who stop by and visit us here at the BTS blog or who've come to see us at our teas (or both!) and have shared your friendship as well as a cup of tea. We know you've got the car started and your hand on the doorknob, but we're not letting you go without a warm hug and a cup of tea-to-go!

Happy, happy New Year from Barb's Tea Shop and we're so looking forward to sharing our tea adventures with you in 2020!

Happy New Year from Barb and Rachel of BTS!

Love is brewing: Somebody's getting married!

Engagement party where coffee, tea and love is brewing!

Somebody get some flowers, somebody get a ring, somebody get a chapel and a choir to sing, somebody get an organ to play . . .

 'Cause somebody's getting married today!

That "somebody" is my daughter and tea biz partner, Rachel and her fiancé, Sean.  And, although the wedding isn't today -  it will be in the fall of 2020 - we did kick off the event with an engagement party last month.

Sean and Rachel are the somebodies getting married!

When my children were little, (Rob, Matt, and the bride-to-be), we had the soundtrack album from the movie "Muppets Take Manhattan". There's a song on that record, played on a turntable (wasn't vintage yet), that seemed to dominate the playlist, "Somebody's Getting Married". It was a favorite to dance to. We have videos of our three youngsters (approximately 6, 4 and 2, respectively) "dancing" (i.e., mostly running around) to this tune sung by the Muppet cast at the wedding of Miss Piggy and Kermit the Frog.

Rob, Rachel, cousin Marti, and Matt, circa Muppet's album dancing days

I share all of this because when Sean proposed to Rachel back in June of this year, (in Yellowstone National park), the tune "Somebody's Getting Married" reeled back at warp speed from my memories. I thought of my now-engaged- twenty-something daughter when she was as toddler, in the family room, shifting from one chubby little foot to the other, head cocked to the left while her brothers ran in circles to the backbeat of the Muppet's choir.

Fast forward to November, 2019, and my husband, Chris and I hosted a "Desserts and Bubbly" party to toast the engaged couple. We had sparkling wine, TOST, and, of course, a coffee and tea station, where "Love was Brewing".  (No event is complete without tea!).

Over cupcakes, doughnuts, brownies, chocolate-covered strawberries, s'more cakes, pumpkin tortes and nanaimo bars, guests toasted the young couple's engagement and upcoming wedding. 

Bridesmaids, photo bombed by wedding officiator and godfather, Ed.

Family and friends brought well-wishes and advice. Some brought gifts wrapped in robin-egg-blue boxes wrapped with white satin bows and some passed along family heirlooms.  A special in the latter category was a padded hanger, embellished and customized over the years, from Sean's grandmother who received it from her grandmother. It's purpose is to hold the wedding gown and what a special job that is.

From Sean's grandmother, the heirloom wedding hanger to hold the bridal gown 

The wedding details are still being worked on, but the bridesmaids, (cousin Marti is one!) and best men have been secured (including the "running dancers", Rob and Matt), the officiator selected (my brother and Rachel's godfather, Ed), day of coordinator aka "HBIC", Sandy,  (Ed's wife and Rachel's godmother) and the venue has been reserved. 

Somebody's getting married and the mother-of-the bride can hardly wait!

There will be a lot to do in the upcoming months, but what fun will be had for this joyous occasion.  

To quote the Cookie Monster, "Me can hardly wait!"