Sunday, September 23, 2018

First Lady Tea with some of my first ladies of tea

Barbs at First Ladies Tea at the Governor Warner Mansion


Last month, at the urging of my friend, Barb Tabb, I attended the First Lady Tea at the Governor Warner Mansion in Farmington. Barb went to the annual event last year and recommended I put this one on my calendar for 2018.

Afternoon tea catered by Kelly's Cucina



With a delicious afternoon tea catered and plated by Kelly's Cucina (we especially loved the curd and cream served up in wine glasses) and details overseen by Linda Pudlik, who started the teas at the Mansion, we knew we were in good hands


Lovely tablescape with curd and cream served in wine glasses.



After the tea was served, Joan McGlincy, presented an interesting presentation on Flo Harding, wife of Warren G. Harding, a president plagued with scandal.


Joan McGlincy presents the story of Flo Harding





As a history and tea buff, this event hit a few buttons. My daughter, Rachel, and I (two Political Science undergrads) are on a quest to visit the homes/libraries of all the presidents and with Harding's home and museum a short journey to Ohio, this was the inspiration  for a future road trip in the near future.

Linda Pudlik (in between the two Barbs) are joined by Barb's family



Barb's two sister-in-laws joined us at our tea and it was a fun and educational afternoon. We'll be looking for next year's subject with great anticipation!


Thursday, September 20, 2018

The Countdown begins!! One year from today, the Downton Abbey movie premieres!

Our visit to Highclere Castle in 2015, the "real" Downton Abbey 


As announced yesterday in several on-line media outlets, including Variety, not only has the production of the Downton Abbey movie already begun, but a premiere date has been set:  September 20, 2019!  We're bringing down our hemlines and dusting off our parasols in anticipation.

We can hardly wait!

Like so many, I'm a Downton Abbey fanatic. Starting back when the British Edwardian-era drama first  aired in the US in 2011, I jumped on the Downton Abbey bus and never got off. 


Meeting with Jessica Fellowes, author and niece of Julian Fellowes



Our great attachment to this Masterpiece serial took us on the road for DA-themed destinations, including a visit to Wilmington, Delaware, to take in one of the early traveling Downton Abbey exhibits. We also met Jessica Fellowes that same trip. That was our first one-degree-of-separation from the show's creator, Julian Fellowes (Jessica is Julian's niece). Jessica has written four Downton Abbey companion books (and, yes, we have them all!).


The  familiar front entrance where the Crawley family and staff greet their guests

The ultimate DA trip was a visit to the "real" Downton Abbey, Highclere Castle. My daughter, Rachel and I walked the grounds and toured the estate in 2015. We also visited Bampton Village, where the Downton Abbey town scenes are filmed.

Bampton Village, the "real" village of Downton Abbey


Our visit to Highclere, along with my interview of one of the residents, Lady Carnarvon, was featured in an issue of Tea Time Magazine.







Barb's Tea Service has done a lot of Downton Abbey-inspired teas, from the Townsend Hotel in Birmingham and Meadow Brook Hall in Rochester, to libraries and museums throughout Michigan.



Presenting at Downton Days at Meadow Brook Hall


We've continued to carry on the DA teas (with another in just two weeks!), and we're gearing up for more in 2019.


Afternoon tea Crawley style



Get your tiara ready and the popcorn stored up.

If the anticipation gets to be too much, have a cup of Republic of Tea's Mrs. Patmore's Pudding tea and snuggle up with one of the Crawley's - teddy bears, that is.


Downton Abbey teddy bears:  Lord Grantham, Lady Mary and Mrs. Patmore

We're ready for a whole new season of Downton Abbey. Let Barb's Tea Service help you with your Downton Abbey-inspired afternoon tea! (barb@barbsteashop,com)





Sunday, September 16, 2018

Tuesday Tea and Tomes: Three Sisters, Three Queens by Philippa Gregory


Three Sisters, Three Queens by Philippa Gregory purchased in the UK coincidentally after visiting Holyrood Palace

Our Tuesday tome is "Three Sisters, Three Queens" by Philippa Gregory and we're pairing it with English Breakfast tea from Hampton Court Palace because it's strong and hearty like the women in this page-turning historical fiction. These Tudor sisters married kings, but all suffered the losses of husbands and children and were victims of poor alliances and isolation. In addition, they endured physical pain hard to fathom, exemplified by Margaret Tudor's weeks long journey from Scotland to England on horseback while eight months pregnant with a broken hip.  


Pair this book with a hearty tea such as English Breakfast


English Breakfast may not be strong enough!

The intertwining stories of the Tudor sisters - King Henry VIII's older sibling, Margaret, his younger sister, Mary, and his wife, Katherine of Aragon - are told from Margaret's perspective. She recounts standard sibling issues - love, jealousy, competition and empathy -  but in the very non-standard environment of life at Court.



Outside Holyrood Palace, once home to Margaret Tudor


I purchased this book while vacationing in England and Scotland in May, not knowing that most of the story took place in Scotland and, a great deal at Holyrood (and Edinburgh Castle) which we visited while in Edinburgh (see June blog story, Hurray for Holyrood for more on that palace).


The Coat of Arms at Holyrood Palace


Many of us were introduced to Philippa Gregory with her very popular book, "The Other Boleyn Girl", early in the new millennium. It was clear to her fan base (of which I am one!), Gregory writes about the Royals, but she is clearly the queen of historical fiction.  After The Other Boleyn Girl,  I read another  half dozen of Gregory's books in succession. After a few years' break, and while away from home, I found comfort in an old friend and I'm so glad I did.


The Holyrood Palace Abbey where Margaret Tudor married James IV, today ruins only remain


Margaret Tudor was two years older than her brother Harry, the future King of England, but she left her home country  at the age of fourteen to marry James IV, the King of Scotland.  It was James IV who restored Holyrood in anticipation of his English Queen and they were married in the Holyrood Abbey, the frame of which still stands today.

At the opposite end of Holyrood, Edinburgh Castle is the other anchor of the Royal Mile

Mary, the younger Tudor sister,  came up from behind and was wed off to the King of France. She was eighteen and he was the advanced age of fifty-two. 

Katherine waited  her turn at a second chance to marry a future king, after her husband, Arthur, the Tudor's eldest, died within six months of their marriage.

Edinburgh Castle at night

Although the three sisters were rarely all in the same room at the same time, let alone the  palace, they exchanged letters to express their feelings and concerns. Margaret and Katherine poured their hearts out, describing fears of abandonment and infidelity, while, in shallow contrast, Mary described the latest in fashions in her childlike scrawl.


Chris stands in front of Arthur's Seat, the peak of hills in Holyrood Park.


Three Sisters, Three Queens is a fascinating account of Royal life in sixteenth century Western Europe, and one that reinforces that life was not so easy, even if spent in castles and palaces. As we were leaving Edingburgh, with our GPS mounted on the dashboard of our rented car, no matter the challenge of driving on the wrong side of the car and on the wrong side of the road, and the heavily trafficked roundabouts we navigated on a bank holiday weekend, I was not eight month's pregnant with a broken hip riding on horseback.  It may be good to be Queen, but I'll settle for 21st century non-nobility.  





Leaving Scotland to journey to England, like Margaret Tudor once did.



Challenges of driving the country roads in the UK are not as difficult as riding by horseback with a broken hip.







Saturday, September 1, 2018

Going way back with Chatsworth: Afternoon tea and tour of the 'real' Pemberely No. 2

Chatsworth, home to Bess of Hardwick, Deborah Mitford and Mr. Darcy

Chatsworth and I go way back and it was a thrill to finally meet this great estate in person.

Not only does Chatsworth have a fabulous alter ego as Pemberley, the impressive home of Mr. Darcy in the "Pride and Prejudice" movie featuring Keira Knightly and Matthew MacFadyen, but its real life history is equally amazing.  I've been a fan of both fictional and factual residents for years. When I visited Chatsworth in May of this year, I felt like I was reconnecting with an long time pen pal - so many stories shared over the years and, now, we got to meet face-to-face.

Saying "hello" to an old friend.


Chatsworth began with Bess of Hardwick in the mid-16th century. Bess, a native of Derbyshire, came from modest means, but through ambition and strategic unions (four marriages), she became the second richest woman in Elizabethan England.  She convinced her second husband, Sir William Cavendish, a man who amassed great wealth taking down monasteries as a commissioner under Henry VIII, to build Chatsworth in her home county. It was this union that started the Cavendish dynasty and today the estate is still owned by descendants of Bess and Sir William.


A portrait of Bess of Hardwick hangs in Chatsworth.The home is still owned by her descendants.



I knew of Bess and some of her famous family line, including Deborah Mitford, through a couple of page-turner biographies by Mary Lovell"Bess of Hardwick" and "The Mitford Sisters".(Coincidentally, I was introduced to each book through separate sources, my mother and my former boss - see blog from May, 2016, Mother's Day: One for the Books).


The Mitford Sisters by Mary Lovell. Deborah Mitford was Duchess of Chatsworth


When I was writing for an on-line newspaper, I interviewed Mary in 2014  shortly after the death of Deborah Mitford, who had married the 11th Duke of Devonshire and heir to Chatsworth.  Mary had personally met Deborah and was given access to some of the family's archives. Deborah's son is the 12th Duke and currently resides in the family estate. It's still a private home, although open to the public for tours.

Bubnell Cliff Farms, a charming B & B on the Chatsworth estate. "Neighbors" are peaceful and laid back.


We, of course, toured the manse, but also, to immerse ourselves the Derbyshire experience, we stayed at Bubnell Cliff Farms, a working farm and bed and breakfast on the estate of Chatsworth. It's just a two mile drive (or 30 minute walk) to the great home and certainly gives you the feel for the English countryside way of life. Bubnell is cozy, peaceful and as laid back as the cows who stroll the grounds of the  B &B.

Morning tea time from our room at Bubnell Cliff Farms


After a relaxing night at the inn and a delicious hearty breakfast, we took our short drive to Chatsworth where history and fantasy collide in over 30 rooms of art and antiques, in particular the Sculpture Gallery, created by the 6th Duke of Devonshire in the early 19th century.  It is here, that Kiera Knightly's Elizabeth Bennet takes a turn about the room and blushes at the sight of some of the unadorned statues in Mr. Darcy's home.


Keira Knightly's Elizabeth Bennet tours the Sculpture Gallery




The Sculpture Gallery may make a lady blush. 


In fact, Matthew MacFadyen's Mr. Darcy's bust still remains at Chatsworth and is displayed in the gift shop. Visitors are warned, "please do not kiss".


Matthew MacFadyen's Mr. Darcy bust resides in the gift shop with a warming: Do no kiss!


Other highlights of the tour: the beautiful dining room, one of the first indoor showers set up in a guest room and the tulip vases.  We learned the latter were very  popular in 17th century when "tulip mania" swept Europe. The market plummeted as quickly as it rose, and thus is considered one of the first examples of an economic bubble.  (Think of it as today's Bitcoin).


One of the highlights of Chatsworth, the beautiful dining room.


An early indoor shower in the guest room
Tulip vases, a sign of wealth. Compare with today's bitcoin.

The last, but certainly not least, of the highlights was afternoon tea on the grounds (was there any doubt?).  In the array of shops and eateries around the mansion, we stopped at the Flying Childers restaurant which offers a "Wedgwood Afternoon Tea". Scrumptious scones and savories, along with deliciously brewed tea, are served on exquisite Wedgwood china.  Channeling our inner duke and duchess was not difficult here.



Afternoon tea at the Flying Childers. Tea, sweets and savories are served on Wedgwood china.







An amazing visit to another  place that brings together so many connections that I ardently admire and love. 

Ah, yes, Chatsworth and I do go way back and I certainly hope we get to go back very soon!



Chris and I were first in line on the day we came to tour. We'll be back!




Sunday, August 19, 2018

Lyme Park: Afternoon tea and tour of the 'real' Pemberley No. One

BBC's Pemberley, home of Colin Firth's Mr. Darcy and our first of two Pemberley visits


 “You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.”

Although that great line was delivered by Mr. Darcy to Elizabeth Bennet, it could easily be applied to how I feel about the real "Pemberley's". I love and admire the two we visited in May: Lyme Park and Chatsworth, both stand-ins for the fictional dwellings of Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice in BBC's 1995 mini-series and the 2005 film version starring Kiera Knightly, respectively.

Fresh air and strong tea were on order after our harrowing trip to Lyme Park for afternoon tea


If a tour of the 600-hundred year old estate, featuring the famous pond that Colin Firth's Mr. Darcy dipped into just before unexpectedly (but oh so delightfully!) running into Elizabeth Bennet, is not enough to admire, throw in afternoon tea and the opportunity to don Regency apparel and one must declare, there is so much to love at Lyme Park in Cheshire, England.




The impressive fa├žade of Lyme Park will be familiar to BBC's P & P aficionados, but interior shots were filmed elsewhere


Although the outside of Lyme Park is very familiar to BBC Pride and Prejudice aficionados, we learned the interior scenes of Pemberley were filmed at Lacock Abbey in Wiltshire, the town that became "Meryton" in the same series.


In the 1880's, Thomas Legh made Lyme Park the grand estate we see today.


The actual inhabitants of Lyme Park were the Legh family, dating back to the 1400's. 

Thomas Legh inherited the estate in 1798 when he was just five years old. During his occupancy, he expanded Lyme to what it looks like today. Descendant Richard Legh, the Third Baron Newton, donated the home to the National Trust in 1948. 


Imagine Mr. Darcy requesting Elizabeth Bennet to play the piano-forte 

We began our particular journey to Lyme Park from our hotel in Windemere in the scenic Lake District of northern England. We learned, to our great dismay, the British GPS works a little differently than in the U.S.


Perhaps with not enough attention to detail, we typed in "Lyme Park" on our dashboard-mounted GPS and just let it take over. 

As we got nearer to our final destination, while navigating over a dozen roundabouts on a traffic-heavy bank holiday, we realized the terrain was getting flatter and the surroundings a bit more suburban. We were totally confused when we were routed to a townhouse complex where motorcycles lined driveways. This didn't look like the country estate of Mr. Darcy. Just where were we?


The intersection just off the "other" Lyme Park in Yorkshire

I wasn't sure if I was going to LOL or OMG when our GPS declared we had arrived at our destination. I looked up in horror to see the street sign before us -  "Lyme Park" (!) was clearly written in black and white.  We had been directed two and half hours out of our way to a subdivision in North Yorkshire!

I quickly called the "original" Lyme Park to see if I could reschedule our afternoon tea reservation to later in the day. The hostess was so accommodating, she said we'll have it ready whenever you get here.


Afternoon tea at Lyme Park can be enjoyed in the garden or in the cozy cottage tea room that once was used for salt storage


Sadly, our GPS misstep caused us so much precious time, that we didn't arrive until almost 3:00, just when they shut down the Regency closet. This is the magical place where you can dress in period clothes and then walk the grounds. 

However, that was the only disappointment of the visit. The afternoon tea was delicious. You can choose to dine inside, (a space  that once served as the salt storage room but is now a pretty, cottage-style tea room) or outside in the garden.  Since it was such a beautiful day, we chose the latter. And, after that harrowing road trip, fresh air and strong tea were in order.


Afternoon tea fare at Lyme Park

Thankfully, we still had plenty of time to tour the estate and its interior was beautiful and impressive. It's filled with antiques and decorated in much the fashion you would expect the aristocratic Darcy clan to reside in.  


Beautiful dining room inside Lyme Park

Finally, no trip to Lyme Park is complete without a stop at the pond where Mr. Darcy took his alluring swim.  Like any Colin Firth/Mr. Darcy devotee, I took a stroll about the pond on the chance he may return and emerge again. 


Still waiting for Colin Firth/Mr. Darcy to emerge from the pond.


Oh, yes, I do declare, there is ever so much to admire and love about Lyme Park! 

 Stay tuned for more Pemberley love in our next blog and our visit to Chatsworth.