Bridgerton Basket-Ball or the March Madness of King George

Bridgerton Basket-Ball Afternoon Tea essentials.

 

Regency-era drama Bridgerton, Season 4, just wrapped up and March Madness followed quickly behind. For fans of both, we have the ideal mash-up: a Bridgerton Basket-Ball Afternoon Tea. Celebrate your bracket wins with scrumptious Bridgerton-themed treats from William Sonoma and hide behind your masquerade mask with those disappointing loses (I'm looking at you, Wisconsin).

A bit of bracket history. . . 

The bracket competition has been a family tradition, organized by my brother Glenn, for years - and before retirement, he did double duty at the office, dedicating many off-the-clock hours to customized recognition awards for all participants. (I can attest to that because, a week before the awards lunch, my contribution was my home computer, photo paper and a printer as sluggish as a phaeton in a mud - but all generously rewarded with a pizza dinner and a lot of laughs).

When my daughter, Rachel, went to Michigan State, almost two decades ago, I began my go-green strategy, which for a number of years, was pretty successful, also at home and at the office. Other factors I employ to pick my teams - places I like to visit (e.g. Connecticut), names that ring a bell (Vanderbilt) and some Midwest neighbors (Fighting Illini). Sometimes it works, often it doesn't, but it turns a spectator sport into competitive challenge.

The Bridgerton Basket-Ball Afternoon Tea

This year, I've decided to up my game in both brackets and afternoon tea, combining a few favorites for what I am now calling an Bridgerton Basket-Ball Afternoon Tea. And, there's more that Bridgerton and March Madness have in common than one might think - there's a court, a lot of balls and an elite society. Even more fitting, Bridgerton Season 4 was a Cinderella story - not unlike a few of those low seeded teams that topple higher ranking opponents. 

Williams Sonoma Bridgerton calendar on sale.

Basketball court 3-tiered tray from Amazon

My three-tiered tray is a layered basketball court, worthy of Georgian royalty and sugary sweets. The layered hoop haven, from Amazon, is both inexpensive and easy to assemble. We filled each floor with edibles from Williams Sonoma Bridgerton Countdown calendar, now on sale. Like an abbreviated advent calendar, there's a treat behind all eight windows, including, chocolate teacups and spoons, a blue and white toile frosted cookie, a flowery white chocolate bar and a few truffles. (We added some lemony Madeline's from Trader Joe's for the bottom tier). 

Bridgerton Green Tea Mocktails

As for tea, we'll be serving up a Green Tea Mocktail, using Republic of Tea's Sophie and Benedict Love in Bloom blend, see the full recipe in our January, 2026 blog:  Unmasking Delight: A Green Tea Mocktail for Bridgerton Season 4.

From Cinderella stories to Elite Society, Bridgerton and March Madness have much in common.

We'll see if this catches on. In my current brackets standing, I've dropped a few pegs. If my picks don't make me the diamond of the season, pass the masquerade mask . . . and a few of those Bridgerton truffles to soften the blow.

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Our favorite sales rep at Williams Sonoma informed me this week, that W-S also sells scones on-line. I put in an order at the store and delivery date is - coincidentally - April 6th. Scone eating and NCAA championship game.  As we are fond of saying at BTS, please stay tuned! 

Project Hail Mary Maxim: Latest Ryan Gosling movie brings back the vintage wool cardigan.

 

The Wolf-pattern Cardigan is back!

A trip to outer space to save Earth, befriending a faceless, spider‑shaped pile of rocks, and looking fabulous in nerdy T‑shirts and a vintage style wool cardigan.

In Project Hail Mary, Ryan Gosling tackles all of these challenges—and perhaps his most unexpected triumph is making old‑school knit sweaters suddenly feel very in.

Ryan Gosling makes cardigans cool.

Last weekend, we caught Hail Mary at Emagine Theater with our “locals.” The super‑wide screen delivered spectacular views of the universe and equally spectacular views of Gosling’s wardrobe. We were smitten with both, and—at least when it comes to the knitwear—we’re clearly not alone.

Along with the punny science-themed T-shirts (e.g. "AH: The Element of Surprise" and "I periodically wear this shirt" with an accompanying graph of the elements), Gosling dons a chunky cardigan with a wolf motif. The design is based on a vintage pattern from yarns and crafts retailer, Mary Maxim, and currently, the sweater kit, for the purchase price of $89.99, is sold out. 

With local family to see Project Hail Mary.

But wait! Citizens of Earth and Erid, do not give up hope. Mary Maxim does have a waiting list one can sign up for to be notfied when the Wolf Cardigan Knit Kit once again becomes available.

While waiting for one’s “Project Mary Maxim” to commence, a little bit of history.

Like Ryan Gosling, Mary Maxim has its roots in Canada. 

Per Mary Maxim's website, Willard and Olive McPhedrain started a spinning wheel and yarn company in Sifton, Manitoba in the 1930's. Originally named after their hometown, the company changed its name to Mary Maxim to follow the success of the personal marketing idea behind Betty Crocker. The pairing of graft style sweater patterns with yarn put them in a whole new stratosphere of popularity and success. 

BTS Podcast co-host - always "in" - dons vintage crafty cardigan.

Eventually, the McPhedrain's moved, along with their family and business, to Paris, Ontario. Son, Larry, seeing more opportunity across the border, moved his family to Port Huron, Michigan, bringing Mary Maxim to the U.S. in 1956. Now in its fourth generation of the family-run business, Mary Maxim continues to sell its products on-line, including, the now wildly popular wolf-pattern sweater.

The Hail Mary comeback cardigan taps into current trends (noted in BTS' In/Out List, 2026), such as vintage finds and granny hobbies. It even inspired half of the BTS Podcast team to search their own closet for retro chunky knits (hand-crafted by "Grandma G.") and don them in style and comfort.

We heartily recommend the movie "Project Hail Mary" and the Project Mary Maxim sweater!

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For more information on the wolf pattern cardigan from Mary Maxim, check out their website page: Wolf Cardigan Knit Kit (Project Hail Mary Version) – Mary Maxim.

Tuesday Tea and Tomes: The Fortune Tellers of Rue Daru (Russian Tearoom in Paris holds Secrets and Spirts)

The Fortune Tellers of Rue Daru by Oleysa Salnikova Gilmore: A Russian tearoom in Paris mystery.

Historical fiction, with ties to pre-revolutionary Russia, set in 1920's Paris with the hub of activity taking place in a tearoom -  I knew The Fortune Tellers of Rue Daru would capture my attention. What was out of the norm for me, was the paranormal. Along with sweet pastries and tea brewed from a Samovar, which is also the tearoom's name, supernatural forces are also served up. And, like the Samovar's guests, some are more welcome than others. 

I was captivated by it all!

The Fortune Tellers of Rue Daru, written by Olesya Salnikova Gilmore, weaves mystical characters seamlessly into the flesh and blood inhabitants of the Samovar. The tearoom, located in a Russian enclave of Paris, is home to Valentino Lenormand, "Baba Valya", and her granddaughter of Zina. Valya fled Russia before the revolution and carved out a living through real and staged otherworldly powers. At Samovar, she plays hostess to fellow emigrees, many of whom are the fallen royals and aristocrats of her homeland. Zina, born in France, is a young woman in her twenties caught between old-world expectations, jazz-age freedoms, and spirits both haunting and haunted.

Tea leaves and coffee beans see into the future.

Although not heavily laden with references to real persons - a brief interaction with F. Scott Fitzgerald and his wife, Zelda and a mention of Hemingway -  we're given a peek into modern Paris night life. It coexists with the fading rituals of Russian high society, all threaded together with fortune telling, conjuring, and unsolved mysteries.

A tragic past looms over Samovar with a darkness to match the decor of the tearoom's meeting place, where fortunes are told and seances conducted. Zina taps into her affinity, dormant for years by orders of Valya, to summon old ghosts to face off living suspects. 

The Fortune Tellers of Rue Daru is a page-turner, pushing the reader from mid-19th century Russia to "modern day" Paris in a back-and-forth race to bring the guilty—living or dead—to justice.

The Fortune Tellers of Rue Daru pair well with Russian tea and teacups.

I'm glad to have gone beyond my usual reading genre to the beyond - a fascinating blend of history, romance, mysticism, with the irresistible allure of cream-filled trubochki paired with strong Russian tea infused with oranges and spices.

Treat yourself to the good fortune of reading about the fortune tellers of Rue Daru.

We give the The Fortune Tellers of Rue Daru two white gloved thumb's up. 

*We paired the page-turner novel with Russian Earl Grey from Verdigris Teas, Hudson, NY (orders now filled by West Bridge Tea and Art Catskill, NY). Ingredients include black tea and orange pieces 😊

St. Patrick's Day Etiquette: Say "hello" to celebrating, but what about the Irish good-bye?

 

Trip to Ireland: hello Blarney Castle . What about the Irish good-bye?

This week, we all are invited to party like we're Irish. On St. Patrick's Day, no matter our ancestry, we clink glasses filled with green-tinted beverages, don emerald-hued attire and place an "O" followed by an apostrophe in front of our names. But, after all the celebrating, can we exit the social gathering without formally bidding adieu?  In other words, employ the much derided "Irish Good-bye"?  

According to one etiquette expert, the silent departure can be a good thing.

Last week, in a Wall Street Journal lifestyle essay written by etiquette coach, Alison Cherperdak, she defends the practice of leaving a party without explanation, though she's quick to point out, this isn't exclusive to the Irish.  In fact, it's noted, many in Ireland are unfamiliar with the term. And, though the concept may be universal, it's bestowed to different nationalities depending on the country. For example, in England, it's referred to as the French leave, the French label it as the "filer l'anglaise" and Germans attribute it to the Polish. 

A stop at Bewley's in Dublin for a cup of tea and some pastries.

In spite of origin, one professor of Celtic Studies and Folklore at the University of Dublin. Dr. Fitzgerald, affirms that while the Irish Good-bye is an unfamiliar term in Ireland, she understands its roots. Irish social culture values warmth and informality, not long ceremonial farewells. Elaborate good‑byes can feel forced or uncomfortable.

But, is ducking out without a word an acceptable alternative? Cherperdak, sagely advises, it depends.

If you're at, say, a large house party on March 17, or, as the etiquette coach states, a packed wedding reception, slipping out unnoticed may be the most polite thing you can do.  It can be less disruptive and provides the host a break from an endless stream of farewells.

A small dinner party, however, requires some parting words. To ghost the host would be rude.

So, what can help you determine proper farewell protocol? Cherperdak suggests reading the room. If your absence won't be noticed until the next day, full throttle the Irish Good-bye. On the other hand, if your leave will be glaringly obvious, do not go quietly into the night.

The Midwest Good-bye hangs in my hallway: guests are warned!

Planning your exit strategy isn't always easy, as we in the Midwest are most familiar. My family knows intimately, the "welp's", the layers of hugs and the requisite hand on the doorknob conversation - in extreme conditions, even an accompanying walk to the car.  

We're reasonable folks, and admit, there's probably a happy medium somewhere between the good-bye getaway and the overwrought  au revoir. 

How ever you celebrate March 17, we wish you a green-infused par-tay, and a festive farewell of your choosing.

Happy St. Patrick's Day from Barbara O'Gulley

Inside Tantalizing Tea: Barb’s Tea Service Interviews Owner - and Divine Jane Blend Creator - Kathy Niles

 

Kathy Niles, owner of Tantalizing Tea, with Barb G. at Jane Austen Festival

Last month, we met Kathy Niles, owner of Tantalizing Tea, at the Jane Austen Festival in Mount Dora, Florida. We purchased the blend created in Jane's honor and loved it. We connected this week for an interview via email. 

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(1) We were introduced to Tantalizing Tea just this year at the Jane Austen Fest in Mount Dora. How long has Tantalizing Tea been in business and what inspired you to start a tea business? 

Tantalizing Tea began in 2001 as a small side business with a dream of becoming a full-time business much sooner than it did. In 2024, I completely retired from a family manufacturing business and was then able to devote myself fully to pursuing my dreams. Tantalizing Tea was born after many serene afternoons at the famous Mariage Freres tea salon in Paris. Growing up with the common teabag, I did not know that there were so many varieties of tea and flavor profiles. inspired by the tranquil environment and calmness that I experienced, I began to dream about bringing the same experience home. 
 
(2) Tantalzing Tea is headquartered in Leesburg, Florida, not far from Mount Dora. Other than on on-line purchasing from your website, are there other retail outlets where your tea is sold? 

Not at this time, but plans are in the works for expanding our wholesale business. For now, Tantalizing Tea can be ordered online at tantalizingtea.com. We ship nationwide. 

Tantalizing Tea's Divine Jane blend

(3) We really enjoyed Divine Jane. It's a Chinese black tea blend with raspberry, vanilla and chocolate flavor (reminds us of a sweet treat from a box of chocolates). How did you select these ingredients for a tea honoring Jane Austen? 

During my research, I discovered the tea Jane mentioned in her letters was Chinese black tea and most likely Bohea. So, I ordered a sample of Bohea and tasted it. I didn't care for the flavor so went with a China black base. Jane was an avid gardener and in the Regency era there was an abundance of fruit and fruit trees growing in their gardens, which is why the idea of adding Raspberry fruit flavor came to be. Also, the Austen family lived across the street from Sydney Gardens (which is still open today). Strolling the gardens and sipping tea, became a popular social event for men and women alike. It was important for me to include something that represented the Regency gardens. Also, chocolate and coffee houses were very popular; therefore, I added chocolate flavor. Who could resist?  

(4) You sell all types of teas: black, green, oolong and white as well as herbals. Do you have plans for any new blends? Do you have a favorite? 

Yes. definitely looking to expand our line of teas. We have several new teas that are waiting to be added to our online store and should be up within the next few weeks. I am working on new wellness blends, as well as many new flavors and blends that inspire me. It is hard for me to choose a favorite tea because there are so many that I enjoy. I tend to gravitate towards estate teas, those with no flavors added. Most often I drink Keemun Mao Feng, 2nd Flush Darjeeling, and a great Assam. I lean towards floral Oolongs in the afternoon. 

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Thanks, to Kathy Niles for taking the time to chat with us this week.

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To see Barb's Tea Service sample Divine Jane tea on their podcast, see this "sneak peek" from Podcast 66: 

BTS Podcast 66 Sneak Peek: Tasting Tantalizing Tea's Divine Jane tea: a Jane Austen-inspired blend

Buc-ees only three hours away: Grand opening in April and we're ready for a Buc-ees road trip!

New Buc-ees location just three hours away - a within reach road trip is not limited to a Buc-ees candle.

It’s almost here! Buc‑ee’s is opening in Huber Heights, Ohio next month, and we’re officially counting down the days.

As we noted in our blog post Buc‑ees! The dazzling southern travel stop experience two years ago, a new Buc‑ee’s near Dayton was in the works. We’re thrilled to share that opening day is April 6 — and yes, we’re already planning the road trip.

Our first Buc-ee's visit, January 2024.

We first discovered this gold‑standard of highway rest stops in early 2024, thanks to our good friends Tim and Joni, who introduced us to the charms of Buc‑ee’s. It’s a traveler’s paradise with everything you could want in one spot: spotless bathrooms, gas, snacks, sandwiches, and even scones. While not every road warrior is clamoring for scones, it’s oddly comforting to know they’re there — right alongside the “non‑essentials” like pink hoodies, candles, and stuffed Buc‑ees.

Last year, had the honor of meeting Buc-ee!

Since that first visit to the Richmond, Kentucky location, Buc‑ee’s has become a staple of our annual winter trek to Florida. This year we set a personal record: three different Buc‑ee’s in three different states. We stocked up on trail mix, beef jerky, brisket sandwiches, a pink hoodie, and a candle. A plush Buc‑ee sporting rabbit ears nearly made it into the cart, but we showed remarkable restraint — with a promise to return for a more “practical” buck‑toothed mascot suitable for everyday décor.

Dining with fab friends who introduced us to Buc-ees (note pink Buc-ee hoodie).

And now that return trip is closer than we expected. The new Ohio Buc‑ee’s opens April 6, just a three‑hour drive from our home north of Detroit. While the ultimate travel‑stop shopping experience isn’t exactly in our backyard, it’s certainly within reach.

Next month will find us cruising down I‑75 toward the travelers’ oasis that is Buc‑ee’s. Our road trip will no longer rely on fond memories fueled by a Buc‑ee’s‑themed candle. It will be real — and it will be spectacular.

(And maybe this time, a plush Buc‑ee for all occasions.)

Scuff Marks, Signatures, and Serendipity: Visiting Woodrow Wilson’s Augusta Boyhood Home

Serendipity at Woodrow Wilson Home, meeting author and director, Erick Montgomery

 

In February, we stumbled into a bit of historical serendipity. We had planned our tour of Woodrow Wilson’s boyhood home in Georgia weeks in advance, but what we didn’t plan on was a personal museum tour and an unexpected encounter with Erick Montgomery, Executive Director of Historic Augusta and author of Thomas Woodrow Wilson: Family Ties and Southern Perspectives. He happened to be on the grounds tending to administrative tasks. I had just purchased his book in the gift shop when our docent pointed out the gentleman walking along the side of the house. I made a beeline for the exit, stopping just short of an ambush introduction. Montgomery was gracious and good‑humored, signing my books and posing for a photo.

That delightful surprise was the icing on the cake, but the museum tour alone was well worth the visit. We were immersed in the early influences that shaped the young boy who would become the 28th President of the United States.

Exterior of fully restored boyhood home of Woodrow Wilson

Although born in Virginia, Woodrow Wilson spent his formative years in Georgia, living in the Augusta manse provided by the First Presbyterian Church, where his father served as pastor. Wilson lived in the home from 1860 to 1870, and after a full restoration, it opened to the public in 2001. Twenty‑five years later, we arrived—marking our thirteenth presidential home or library on our ever‑growing quest to visit as many POTUS historic sites as possible.

Born in 1858, Wilson was the first Southern president elected after the Civil War and the only Democrat to serve during the Progressive Era. He is best remembered for his role in the League of Nations and the Treaty of Versailles following World War I. Less widely known are the childhood experiences that shaped his worldview—insights the Augusta museum brings vividly to life.

Wilson's bedroom which he later shared with his younger brother.

Wilson’s given name was Thomas Woodrow Wilson, though he was known as “Tommy” as a child. He moved to the Augusta manse before his second birthday and lived there for a decade. His father’s position came with both a residence and a generous salary for the time. The family’s first Augusta abode soon proved too small for the growing household, and a larger, newly constructed home was purchased. Considered modern for its era, it boasted gas lighting and was plumbed for indoor water service, though the latter wasn’t fully installed until later.

Dining room table used by the Wilson family. Wilson recognized his scuff marks.

Because the home belonged to the church, meticulous records were kept of its furnishings, which aided greatly in the restoration. While many pieces in the museum are period-appropriate, several belonged to the Wilson family. When President Wilson visited in 1911, he reportedly recognized the dining room table by the scuff marks he had made on its base as a boy.

"Tommy" can still be seen today on the front parlor window (right).

His youthful mischief wasn’t limited to just the furniture. Legend has it that he used his mother’s ring to etch his name into a front parlor window. Today, visitors can still make out the faint inscription—“Tommy”—on the glass.

He also poured his energy into baseball, then a relatively new sport. The museum displays his careful notes on team members and positions. One of his teammates—and next‑door neighbor—was Joseph Lamar, who would later become an Associate Justice of the Supreme Court. Quite the neighborhood roster.

At BTS, we like to say serendipi-tea took place in Augusta, GA.

Perspectives on Wilson’s legacy continue to evolve, and his achievements are debated and reexamined. However, what's indisputable is that he left a permanent mark not only on American history, but —quite literally—on a parlor window in his boyhood home.

Exploring the early life of a future president was fascinating in its own right. The unexpected brush with a local historian made it all the more memorable.

For more information on this historic presidential site, see The Boyhood Home of Woodrow Wilson.

Jane Austen Fest in Mount Dora: Why we're already planning for next year's visit!

Jane Austen Fest in Mount Dora last weekend - we're already planning for next year!

Regency fashions, afternoon tea, and a deep dive into Jane Austen’s enchanting cousin, Eliza, were all part of a delightful three‑day weekend in Mount Dora celebrating the famed author of six novels, including Pride and Prejudice.

This weekend, the charming central Florida town once again hosted the Jane Austen Fest, now in its sixth year. The Fest is a non‑profit organization that awards scholarships to young women while offering the community and its guests three days of Regency‑themed events. Board President Margaret Anderson, a lifelong Austen devotee, oversees the festivities. Her passion and dedication—supported by a team of tireless volunteers—result in an incredible, and incredibly full, weekend of activities for Austen fans of every level.

The marketplace is Regency shopping in Annie Donnelly Park.

As luck would have it, we were vacationing in Florida for the month and, even better, staying only forty minutes from Mount Dora. During an afternoon of sightseeing with family two weeks ago, we spotted banners for the Jane Austen Fest, and I signed up immediately. Although the afternoon teas at the town’s Victorian jewel, the Donnelly House, had sold out early (note to self: book ahead next year), there were still plenty of activities to enjoy. The marketplace offered a variety of vendors—dresses, crafts, and tea, including a special Jane Austen blend that will be featured in an upcoming blog. There were also fashion shows, a Regency ball, and a central gathering spot—an "Assembly Room" —where guests could chat, browse books, or work on a communal jigsaw puzzle.

Margaret Anderson, JA Fest President

Claire Saim, author, discussed Jane's "almost French cousin".

                       

But one event on the weekend schedule truly captured my attention: a lecture on Jane Austen’s engaging and cosmopolitan cousin, Eliza de Feuillide, presented by French author Claire Saim. Saim wrote Jane Austen: A Visual Encyclopedia (yes, also to be featured in an upcoming BTS Tuesday Tea & Tomes).

In the City Hall Auditorium, conveniently just steps from Mount Dora’s Annie Donnelly Park, the home base for the Fest, Saim shared slides chronicling her Austen research throughout France. Granted rare access to the former home of Eliza and her husband—now a very private residence—Saim even visited what is believed to be the actual bedroom of Jane’s cousin.

Divine Jane tea

More Regency shopping.

BTS’ Austentacious Tea Talk has often mentioned Eliza and her jet‑setting life (before jets existed), including her time at Versailles, where she met Marie Antoinette. We like to imagine the two sharing a cup of tea, perhaps using the fine china the French queen helped design. (We have a reproduction from Bernardaud which we share at our tea talks.)

Mount Dora, a charming town, offers a variety of shops & dining during the Fest and all year.

There was so much to enjoy at the Jane Austen Fest and having it set in Mount Dora only enhanced the experience. After the presentation and a stroll through the marketplace, my husband and I explored the town on foot and ended our visit with a tapas lunch on a sunny outdoor patio.

Next year, we’ll be back—and afternoon tea will definitely be on our itinerary.

Goodwill Hunting: Treasures - and treasured memories - of thrift shopping!

Thrift shopping at Goodwill brings treasures and treasured memories.

 

Like a rags-to-riches movie drama, thrift shopping offers hope, promise, and, on occasion, a hodgepodge of memories.  In the thrill of the hunt, we've also learned, a few bad apples don't spoil the whole bargain barrel.

Last year I was introduced to thrifting—the art of scouring second-hand merchandise at mostly charitable retailers, where big-ticket treasures hide among piles of oddities and miscellaneous clutter. It’s a trend fueled by sustainability, quirky fashion finds, and the thrill of deep discounts.

Limoges tray among Goodwill finds.

Other Thrifts have books from the past.

I’ll admit it took a few outings before I embraced the experience. On my first visits, staring at counters of cast-offs and rifling through racks of items I would have readily placed at the curb, I found myself plotting an early exit. But after scoring a few major deals, I discovered an unexpected perk of bargain hunting: the memories tucked between the shelves.

My most recent thrifting adventure unfolded over two days in central Florida, where our family gathered for a mid-winter break. The temperatures were unseasonably cool, but the deals at Goodwill were undeniably hot. With my son and daughter-in-law in tow, we explored not only the charity shop but also thrift-adjacent haunts—flea markets and lower-end antique stores (think decidedly non-Sotheby’s).

String owl - I made one in the '70's.

My Grandma's Autunm Leaf dishes

                       

My haul was impressive: a mint-condition Limoges ceramic tray, a lusterware teacup and saucer, and two Wedgwood jasperware dishes—all for just over $20. For the cost of two and a half Starbucks Frappuccinos (and zero calories), I walked away with more than beautiful bargains. I found myself surrounded by echoes of my childhood and early adulthood. Though I lingered down those aisles of nostalgia longer than I realized, I’m fortunate to have a daughter-in-law who also leaves no gem-stone unturned, and our timing at checkout was perfectly in sync.

Wood Burning kit for children: The 1960's - early 70's were a different time for kids' toys. Watch out!

Among the cherished items I spotted: a stringed-owl craft kit I completed as a young teen; teacups from my grandmother’s pantry in the Superior Hall Autumn Leaf pattern; a series of famous-battles books my dad once owned; and a children’s woodburning set my brothers received one Christmas. The latter included a heated pen tool meant for decorating wood—though one brother used it to create an unwanted design on my parents’ mattress. (It was a different time. We grew up with ovens that melted plastic goop, klackers, and jarts.)

Wedgwood Jasperware mini dish set.

First everyday dishes, Corelle

                                      



                 

I even came across the first two sets of “everyday” dishes my husband and I owned: the blue-and-white Corelle, followed by our upgrade to Pfaltzgraff’s Village pattern. When I lifted a Pfaltzgraff piece to show my son, he smiled and said, “I remember those.”

How do we like those apples? We like them and we got their number! Pfaltzgraff memories complete with apple.

                                                                                                                                                 

By the end of my thrifting tour, I had gathered treasures that would brighten my dining room and, according to my antiques identifier app and a quick eBay search, if I chose to resell, I'd gain a net a profit of roughly $50. But the strolls down memory lane? Those were, as you might guess, absolutely priceless.

How do I like those apples? Like Good Will Hunting, I like them a lot and I got their (discounted) number!

Tuesday Tea and Tomes: The Secret Book Society - Women who read can be dangerous, especially in Victorian England

 

United by a passion for reading, four women in Victorian England form a clandestine club in The Secret Book Society.

There’s no greater luxury than a good book and a hot cup of tea. Today, that indulgence costs little more than a fragrant Earl Grey and the modest price of a novel. But for a lady of society in Victorian England, reading came with a far steeper price—one that could damage her reputation or even lead to permanent confinement. For women whose passions stretched beyond household guides and etiquette manuals, a simple gathering over tea and gossip could become the perfect cover for a clandestine club devoted to the pleasures of poetry and fiction.

That’s exactly what inspired the women of The Secret Book Society.

I hadn’t heard of this book until a recent stop at Novel, a newer bookstore–slash–sandwich shop in Rochester, Michigan. A particular section called to me, and after reading the back cover of this blue-and-gold–toned tome, I was hooked. Honestly, it had me at “forbidden.”

I found this book at Novel, a book/sandwich shop in Rochester, MI.

Written by New York Times bestselling author Madeline Martin, the novel follows four women—each trapped by the rigid expectations of their era and the pressure to maintain appearances. Martin weaves their seemingly unrelated stories into a seamless tapestry strengthened by support, compassion, and ultimately, the deep bonds of friendship.

These four women are at very different stages of life—widowed, long-married, newly married, and single—but all have endured merciless scrutiny. The consequences for stepping out of line were severe. Writing a poem or speaking an honest opinion could land a woman in an asylum without judge or jury.

If that still prevailed today, I’d be in lockup.

And what authors are they secretly reading? Poe, Brontë, and Austen.

Yes—by those standards, I’d be labeled a lunatic without hesitation.

While the injustice is infuriating, the balm is the way these women lift one another up—thinking not only selflessly, but ingeniously. Each has also known the sting of betrayal from a so‑called “friend” who sought to elevate herself at someone else’s expense.

We’ve all had those encounters—the sadness and frustration when someone breaks a confidence or lies to get a better place in line. But when you find your tribe, their friendship becomes all the sweeter. The joys are shared, and the struggles become a team effort rather than a solitary fight.

We’re lucky to have the bookstores and libraries we love, the freedom to choose what we read, and the chance to find our own special tribe.

And, we're crazy for this book!

We give The Secret Book Society two white‑gloved thumbs up.

Barb's Tea Service's In/Out List for 2026: A return to comfort, calm and moore!

Smart snuggies and celery vases are in for 2026.

We love January—a month to exhale after the holiday hustle, indulge in a bit of self‑care, and look ahead to new opportunities, focus, and adventures. It’s also the perfect moment to shed some clutter, release tired habits, and embrace what’s next. As always, BTS is here to help guide the way, scouring respected media (Washington Post, New York Times, Variety) and adding our own humble opinions to create our annual In/Out List.

For those keeping track, this marks our 16th In/Out List, and a theme has clearly emerged from all our sourcing and (admittedly) biased commentary. Many of this year’s trends—some still tied to our 2025 list—lean into tranquility, comfort, and calm, with a nostalgic nod to life before smartphones and AI. Think granny hobbies, cozy décor, and accessories that soothe the soul. Bonus: savvy thrifting makes it all easier on the wallet. So wrap yourself in your warm snuggie, pour a cup of tea, and rest easy—you’re already trending.

IN/OUT 2026

Hue knew?

In: Cloud Dancer, Pantone’s Color of the Year. Pantone describes it as “a lofty white that serves as a symbol of calming influence… encouraging true relaxation and focus, allowing the mind to wander and creativity to breathe.”

We may need a bigger paint bucket. And although I’ve never met a shade of white I didn’t like, I’ll miss last year’s scrumptious hue.

Out: Mocha Mousse, Pantone’s 2025 pick. Chosen for its nurturing qualities and hints of chocolate and coffee (we added “tea”), it answered our collective desire for comfort. Our vote: welcome Cloud Dancer in, but save a little Mocha Mousse for dessert.

Some have only 3 more podcasts to go.

BTS podcast merch - very in!

Fashionable fashions

In:  Snuggies with a message. Remember the original blanket with sleeves, the pop culture phenomenon from 2008? Well, it's back, but with meaning. While sitting back with a good book, don't lose an opportunity to let the world know, you're not just resting, but you're communicating. We particularly favor the Jane Austen "upscale" version - more of a sweater slanket than an oversized hospital gown - that is emblazoned with quotes from the author of Pride and Prejudice. 

And for those who are passionate about their snack time, snuggies are not only still available, but come in assorted prints featuring Cheetos, M & M's and Snickers. *caution, wear only indoors if concerned about swag gap.

Out: Baggy jeans. According to Hello! Magazine, it's time to hang up those grunge-inspired slacks and replace with cigarette pants.  With a turn to a more polished look, the cigarette pants have the flattering look of skinny jeans without discomfort. Make room for these roomier pants in your closet and we think you'll be, like the Mask, sssssmokin'!

In:  BTS Podcast Swag: This year, BTS Podcast upped the ante with its coffee mug only merch to include five-time guest hoodies. Customized by Honeywood Embroidery, our first recipient was special guest, Rob Gulley.

Out:  Swag gap. One of the last gasps at relationship inequity call outs - which previously included large age differences or "cutability" mismatch - is the "swag gap". This occurs when one member is always dressed on pointe, while the other shows up in sweat pants (and, perhaps, a Cheetos snuggie).

Granma hobbies, a break from digital overload

Granny chic

In: Grandma hobbies. Needlecraft, puzzles, and baking are back, embraced by a whole new generation. Southern Living notes these activities “foster mindfulness and reduce anxiety by activating our senses.” A welcome break from digital overload and doomscrolling.

My millennial daughter, Rachel, who just took up cross stitching, recently hosted a “craft night.” Her friends brought projects, conversation, and plenty of tea to spill. 

Out: Cell phones at restaurants. At least one establishment is enforcing this. Hush Harbor in Washington, D.C., requires guests to check their phones before seating. The owner told the Washington Post he wants diners to rediscover “the magic of being present with others.” For selfie withdrawal, Polaroids are available for rent.

Celery vase thrift find.

Recent thrift store excursion.

                   

Retail therapy

In: A shift to the thrift. Bargains, unique finds, and planet‑friendly shopping—all wrapped into one experience. We embraced this trend last year (see May’s Substack, A Shift to the Thrift), and it’s only gaining momentum. Our latest treasure? A celery vase (another trend!) that felt like a casino win. Instead of three‑of‑a‑kind, we scored one‑of‑a‑kind—for under $10.

Out: Getting Sak’d? Saks Global recently filed for bankruptcy, citing online‑shopping growth, a debt‑financed Neiman Marcus acquisition, and declining luxury purchases. Our daily lives will continue uninterrupted.

Matilda, dressed as Santa, will change outfits to reflect season/occasion. 

Gone Afoul

In: Porch geese. As noted in last month’s blog, They’re Back: The Return of the Porch Goose, these faux fowls are once again dressing for every season and occasion. From Santa suits (see Matilda) to sports‑team gear to a judicial robe and lace collar for RBG‑inspired days, they’re back and delightful.

Out: The Bird Test. A viral TikTok showed a woman telling her husband she saw an interesting bird. He didn’t ignore her—but he didn’t engage either. One million views later, the question stands: is noticing the mundane the true test of compatibility?

A Washington Post article notes that couples who share the ordinary as well as the extraordinary tend to have longer lasting relationships.

I told this story to my husband. He replied, “Sorry, wasn’t listening.” (We celebrate 43 years this May.)

Muppets are coming back!

Looking more like Statler and Waldorf

           

  

The Arts

In: Jane Austen, Bridgerton, and The Gilded Age (see BTS blog for upcoming schedules).

In: More classics‑to‑screen adaptations—Wuthering Heights among them. Will Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi have us asking more of the moors?

In: The Muppets. The beloved puppet menagerie returns to TV in February. We’ll be watching for Statler and Waldorf; since the last airing, we relate to the balcony duo more than we’d like to admit.

Detroit Lions cakes at Home Bakery

Be a Good Sport

In: Winter Olympics and Mountain Skiing. The Games arrive in Milan this month with new events, including “skimo”—athletes climb a mountain (sometimes with skis), then switch gear and ski down. We propose another new event, combining Emily Bronte with cross-country skiing across the countryside. Of course, we'd call it Ski-moor. 

Out: The Lions—at least for this the remainder of the season. We expect Jaymo(re) things in 2026. In the meantime, let them eat cake at Rochester’s Home Bakery.

Celebrating 60th podcast with fellow podcasters. Hard at work?

Mixed Media

In: With Love, Barb’s Tea Service Podcast and its special guests. We hit episode 65 this month and have even more guests lined up for the year. As we like to say—stay tuned.

Out: With Love, Meghan Markle. Netflix and the Duchess of Sussex are parting ways after a low‑energy lifestyle series with disappointing ratings. At Fortune’s Most Powerful Women Summit, Meghan noted, “Eight episodes for two seasons—it’s a lot of work.” Don’t we know it (see above “In”).

BTS banner year of tea events. Ready for 2026!

Barb's Tea Service Tea Events

In:  Barb's Tea Service Tea Talks and more! After a near record-breaking year of tea events, we're ready for 2026. Our most popular:  Downton Abbey, Gilded Age, Bridgerton, Jane Austen, Tea Customs Around the World and Tea and Chocolate Pairings. Contact us at barb@barbsteaservice.com or check out our website, barbsteaservice.com  for more information:  

Last Word (but you know, we’re never quite done!)

In: Barb’s Tea Service friends and family—including those we’ve yet to meet. We are grateful for your support and patronage. You’re all trending, and we raise our teacup (clink) to toast to you and to both a wonderful 2026 and a continued holiday era! 

Celebrating the holiday era all year!