Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Happy New Year! What lies ahead for BTS' favorite period shows? Here's what we know so far for 2026!

Bridgerton's Lady Danbury's home (aka the Holburne Museum) in Bath.  Season 4 begins in January

 


Happy 2026!

I’ve always looked forward to the month of January. After the rush of the holidays—truly the most wonderful time of the year, filled with gatherings of friends and family, goodies for breakfast, and the cheerful invasion of ornaments, twinkling lights, and scented candles—it’s nice to settle back into a routine. It’s time to eat a bit more sensibly, enjoy some “down time,” set new goals, and see which favorite series and films await us in the coming year.

For us at BTS, that means returning to our bread-and-butter (or clotted cream and scones) franchises: The Gilded Age, Downton Abbey, Jane Austen adaptations, and Bridgerton.

We’re spilling the tea on what we know so far:

Bridgerton

Season 4 premieres on Netflix this January, released in two parts: the first half on January 29 and Part 2 on February 26. This season focuses on Benedict Bridgerton, the second-oldest of the eight siblings. So far, we’ve watched Daphne marry the Duke, Anthony pair off with Kate, and Colin—my favorite storyline to date—find his happily-ever-after with Penelope, forming the superstar couple “Polin.” (Spoiler alert: Penelope was also a spiller of tea, courtesy of her quill.)

Early previews hint at a Cinderella-style tale. Start the carriage—we are ready to be amused!


Troy, NY at the home of Mrs. Fish - no new money!


The Gilded Age

Season 4 is confirmed, though no official air date has been announced. Online speculation points to late 2026 or early 2027. One thing we can confirm: filming will once again take place in Troy, New York. According to the Albany Times Union, Mayor Carmella Montello recently announced that filming is expected to begin this spring.




At the Whistling Kettle in Troy for afternoon tea.


And the Gilded Age cast and crew won’t be the only ones in Troy this spring—the BTS crew will return as well. Will we get a peek at the goings-on? We’ll keep you posted. At the very least, we’ll chat with the locals, gather the scoop, and make our way back to The Whistling Kettle for afternoon tea.





Jane Ausen museum in Bath. Channeling both inner Jane and Lady Whistledown with quill and ink.



Jane Austen

There’s plenty happening in Austen-land, even after the 250th birthday celebrations of 2025. As highlighted in this month’s Town & Country, here’s what’s queued up for 2026:

  1. The Other Bennet Sister As mentioned in this week’s Tuesday Tea and Tomes, this Pride and Prejudice–inspired novel focuses on the overlooked middle Bennet sister. A ten-episode series based on the book is expected to air this spring on BritBox. And we’ll finally learn whether ladies who wear glasses receiv

  2. Pride and Prejudice Another remake of the classic. While we continue to debate the best adaptation (BBC 1995 with Jennifer Ehle and *swoon* Colin Firth? Keira Knightley and Matthew Macfadyen in 2005? Or, for a select few, the 1940 version starring the decidedly not–early-twenties Greer Garson and Laurence Olivier), Netflix is bringing us a new six-part series in 2026. Emma Corrin (Princess Diana in The Crown) will star as Lizzy Bennet. Release date TBD.

Can we fit another P&P into our rotation? It pains me little to say: a Janeite in possession of a Netflix account is surely in need of more Austen streaming.
  1. Sense and Sensibility A new film adaptation arrives in theaters in September 2026—just over thirty years since Kate Winslet and Emma Thompson brought the Dashwood sisters to life. Daisy Edgar-Jones (Where the Crawdads Sing, Under the Banner of Heaven) will take on the role of Elinor Dashwood. It's been too long since we've been charmed by Willoughby and questioned the Brothers Ferrars on the big screen. We hope the latest version brings much to recommend!






Highclere (Rachel in foreground), the real Downton Abbey - more stories to tell?



Downton Abbey

The third and final film in the trilogy arrived this past September. Creators and cast have said this is the end—and the title, Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale, certainly suggests as much. Still, for those of us who have followed the upstairs/downstairs world of the Crawley family and their staff for fifteen years, it’s hard to say goodbye.




Interviewing Lady Carnarvon  in Newport - blending Gilded Age & Downtown Abbey. Crossovers in the future?




While we don’t want Lady Mary to “jump the shark,” we wouldn’t object to a few spin-offs in the future. Star Wars has shown us, there is no story line not worth exploring, even if it isn't really.

Rev up the recliner and pass the remote - we're ready for all the drama (hopefully mostly on screen) the new year brings.


Happy New Year from Barb's Tea Service!



Tuesday, December 30, 2025

Tuesday Tea and Tomes: The Other Bennet Sister - A good look at the overlooked daughter of Pride and Prejudice


Janice Hadlow's "The Other Bennet Sister":  The story of the overlooked daughter in Pride & Prejudice


"Men seldom make passes at girls who wear glasses".

Although that quote is attributed to Dorothy Parker, it could easily have been a Mrs. Bennet original. The ambitious mama of five daughters from Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice, whose nerves seek more compassion than her maternal affections, continues her misdirected and indelicate matchmaking designs in "The Other Bennet Sister". 

This Austen fan fiction by Janice Hadlow is Pride and Prejudice from another perspective. Unlike "Longbourn" which sees the Bennet tale through the eyes of the servants (BTS Tuesday Tea and Tomes November, 11), The Other Bennet Sister, focuses on an overlooked family member, the middle child, plain and awkward, Mary.

The book unfolds in four broad sections:

(1) Pride and Prejudice, Mary's version
(2) Mary's fate following her advantageously married older sisters
(3) Mary's bloom in London and 
(4) Will Mary find her love match (accompanied by excessive handwringing).

The first part of Mary's story gives us an insight into her ill-at-ease behavior be it a Netherfield ball or the family dinner table. Her unremarkable looks are harshly compared to the attractiveness of her sisters - and the constant disappointment in them - by her mother. The final blow:  the need for glasses which sends Mrs. Bennet into a reactive rage.  Mary's chances of finding a suiter are already a challenge but, now, with those spectacles, well, she might as well resign herself to spinsterhood. 

Mary knows too well her ordinary appearance is not helped by her stiff manner and lack of charm. She tries to compensate through relentless reading and dutiful piano practice, but without genuine passion, her efforts land with all the excitement of a sermon from Mr. Collins.

We empathize with Mary:   a sad flower whose immediate family bestows little light or care. Even after Jane and Elizabeth marry well, their support rarely extends beyond polite encouragement. It isn't until Mary, in desperate need of something beyond the confines of her situation, seeks new opportunities with relations in London.


England's Lake District, a lovely place to visit. 



There, with patience and attention, Mary blooms. Pushed out of her uncomfortable, but familiar, zone, Mary finds her value - and others begin to see it too.  We applaud the transformation, and we wish for her to claim the happiness her siblings have found. 


England's scenic Lake District, tempting to linger, leave excess baggage behind.



But when the extended family, and a few attentive young men, travel to the Lake District, the narrative slows. As lovely as the scenery is, the story drags like a phaeton stuck in mud. Endless introspection and figurative pearl‑clutching weigh down the story. Having visited the Lake District myself, (BTS Blog, B&B Lake District) I understand the temptation to linger—but recounting every unspoken thought makes one long to pack up all that excessive baggage and return to London.

Despite the change in momentum in the book's later half, we still enjoyed the story. We were rooting for Mary to have a happy ending - not only to find love, but face off her bullies. 

And, yes, most importantly, to show us that men do make passes at women who wear glasses.



A ten episode series based on the book, The Other Bennet Sister to air on the BBC in 2026. We'll be on the lookout for the overlooked daughter of Pride and Prejudice. 


Sunday, December 28, 2025

Trader Joe's Grump Tree: Despite its name, it will bring you cheer!

Trader Joe's Grump Tree: a comical, curvy conical conifer 


Part whimsy, part Grinch, the Grump Tree could make even Scrooge smile. 

Last week, I became acquainted with the Grump Tree after my husband, Chris, returned from one of his favorite markets, Trader Joe's. I had asked if, while there, he could pick up a seasonal floral bouquet for our Christmas table. Turns out, the store had no festive flower arrangements available. The bedecked, but drooping, evergreen in a red burlap sack was deemed a fair substitute. 

Though I puzzled my puzzler for a minute or four, I thought, well that's something I haven't seen before - and maybe, just maybe, what Chris got at the store, though silly, its charming and fits our decor.

The Grump Tree won me over and it lent its personality to our table, mantle and sideboard. Easy to move, and requiring little space, it has made its rounds throughout our holiday house - wherever we needed a little extra cheer. But, soon, when the wreaths and holly retire for another year, what is to become of our Grump Tree? Turns out, we have big plans, and so does our evergreen.


Our Grump Tree making its rounds before it meets Michigan tundra.


In reality, the Grump Tree is a lemon cypress, native to California's Moneteray Peninsula, comfortable in Growing Zones 7 - 10. For reference, southern Michigan is Zone 6 b and if, we transport to our northern cabin, welcome to Zone 5a. While the grump tree may momentarily get a little bit grumpier when its roots hit the chilly Mitten-state tundra, it will relish in the welcoming acres of open space that will encourage its potential height of 30 feet and a width of 20 feet. 

In the meantime, we're making the most of this comical, curvy conical conifer - all for the low price of $9.99.

A quick check on Trader Joe's website, notes this item is seasonal and offers the following disclaimer:

NOTE: Since posting, the details of this item may have changed due to fluctuating market prices, federal regulations, currency rates, drought, bandits, rush hour traffic, filibusters, zombie apocalypse, punctilious product developers...Contact our Crew for current price and availability

It's no wonder where the Grump Tree gets its sense of humor.

Friday, December 26, 2025

Scandalous Dessert for the holidays! Watergate Salad with a Teapot (Dome)


Watergate Salad, a sweet side dish with a sketchy origin story.


Watergate salad—also known as “green fluff” or “pineapple pistachio delight”—is a festive family favorite that once again graced our Christmas dinner table this year. I can’t say with certainty when this whipped‑gelatin side‑dish tradition began for us, but I do know it was my mom who first introduced it to our holiday feasts decades ago. It quickly gained a new fan base when she continued serving it on Christmas Eve, and the grandkids loved it—especially my oldest son, Rob.

As a “salad” made with marshmallows, Cool Whip, and maraschino cherries, it’s no surprise this mixed‑green concoction was a hit with the younger crowd. But even now, my maturing millennials still request it, and—considering the culinary skills required (none)—I’m more than happy to keep this gelatin classic alive.


Watergate Salad ingredients include instant pudding, marshmallows, pineapple & cherries


My own introduction to Watergate Salad may be a bit fuzzy, but I’ve since learned that its origin story is equally hazy. Accounts vary on when it first appeared and how it got its name. According to an article in last month’s Southern Living, the recipe debuted in the 1970s when Jell‑O launched its pistachio‑flavored instant pudding mix. Known by several names (as noted above), Kraft—owner of Jell‑O—officially relabeled their version “Watergate Salad” in 1993, after nearly two decades of informal use.

But who first called it Watergate Salad? That question carries almost as much controversy as the hotel and political scandal that made the name famous. Tasting Table (April 2025) offers several theories about how this unpretentious foodie fluff acquired its moniker, but the most credible one traces back to the salad’s cousin: Watergate Cake.


Watergate Salad, requires little in the way of culinary skills


In September 1974, a Maryland newspaper published a recipe for a cake labeled “Watergate”—a satirical nod to its thick frosting “cover‑up” and its abundance of nuts. Whether the cake or the salad claimed the name first remains unclear, but “Watergate” was certainly a high‑profile term in the early 1970s. It inspired not only desserts but also gave us the now‑ubiquitous “‑gate” suffix for political scandals.


Watergate Salad, a sweet and fluffy side dish.


As for the Watergate Salad itself, I’ve tried a few different recipes (Little Sunny Kitchen, Allrecipes), but the basic ingredients remain the same:

  • Jell‑O instant pistachio pudding

  • Crushed pineapple in juice

  • Cool Whip

  • Maraschino cherries

  • Pecans or pistachios

Preparer’s suggestion: Whatever recipe you follow, we recommend the full container of Cool Whip. Any version that calls for only half won’t be quite as airy and fluffy—and after all, it is called “green fluff.”

And for those in our family who prefer it without nuts, rest assured: the recipe holds up just fine without them.

To keep the political‑scandal theme going, we suggest pairing your Watergate Salad with a full teapot (Dome) of a complementary tea blend. We brewed ThĂ© des Sages, a black‑and‑green blend from Dammann Frères.

For more on the controversy surrounding President Harding’s administration—what we like to call “the political scandal with the pleasant‑sounding name”—see our visit to the Harding Home and Library blog from April 2024.



Wednesday, December 24, 2025

They're back! The return of the Porch Goose just in time for Christmas!

The Porch Goose has returned - and a welcome treat for Christmas!

 

Last week, when my husband and I made a quick stop at our daughter and son-in-law's home, we were greeted at the front door by a festive goose donning a Santa hat and jacket. Although it summoned up kitschy vibes from the 1980's, we were told this was very new and very trendy. Also, her name is "Matilda".

My daughter is a December birthday girl and her husband gifted her with this porch goose for her special day, complete with a party dress and Santa gear.  

My first question was, "this is new?" And, the answer was not only yes, but very yes. To verify this supposed trend, we took a drive through their mostly millennial neighborhood. To our amusement, porch geese were everywhere—an entire flock of them—each dressed in its own seasonal ensemble. We spotted warm winter coats, college football jerseys, glittery Christmas trees, and even a turkey costume or two.

The return of the porch goose was further confirmed by a recent article this month in Country Living Magazine (These 1980 Home Decor Ideas are Trending Again). The fair (and, often, not-so-fair) weather friends have been gaining traction since 2020 and, fueled by TikTok, are finding favor with a new generation.

When porch geese first made their appearances in the '80's, they seemed to fit right in with the multitude of miniature windmills and garden flags that piled up on decks and porches. This outside decor seemed to provide neighborhood landscapes with an odd blend of old country/miniature golf inspiration.

But, there's no denying - the porch goose is chichi silly and fun. I remember their first go‑around. While walking our dogs throughout the year, my husband and I would occasionally spot one of these ornamental birds dressed for the weather. On a rainy day, seeing a faux fowl in a tiny raincoat and bonnet never failed to make me smile.

So, welcome back porch geese! We love your attitude and fashion sense.

And, shhhhh! - don't tell Matilda, but she's got a special something waiting for her under the Christmas tree this year.


Merry Christmas from more from the 1980's


A holiday hearty cup of tea cheers to all!

Merry Christmas from all of us at Barb's Tea Service

(including Matilda)



Sunday, December 21, 2025

Jane Austen Stocking Stuffers (Big and Small) to Bring Cheer to the Janeite on Your List

Austen Fun and Game:  Jane Austen Trivia and Jane Austen Action Figure (complete with quill!)

With Jane Austen's birthday less than a fortnight from Christmas, there's a lot of celebration to be had. While enjoying the festive season filled with Regency-era traditions including decorative evergreens, boughs of holly, the lighting of the Yule Log and sipping syllabub, one may also wish to add to such an Austen-inspired gathering, the exchanging of gifts. And, with the latter, Barb's Tea Service has nine very present-day present suggestions for your favorite Janeite. 


Just for fun and games  🎲🎲:


Lego tribute to Jane Austen, reimagines her home with 361 pieces.



1. Jane Austen Action figure:  

With biting wit and layered social commentary, Jane Austen proves that the pen can, indeed, be mightier than the sword. The Jane Austen Action Figure affirms not all heroes wear capes- some come to our rescue donning bonnets and gowns. The weapon of choice, of course, is her quill. 


Jane Austen Action Figure comes with quill and book.


This amusing item was gifted to me a number of years ago, but can still be found on resale sights, like eBay, for $25 - $35. 

    

2.  Jane Austen Lego Set

The Lego tribute to Jane Austen reimagines the author's home in 361 pieces. Once assembled, we find Jane standing by her fireplace surrounded by her writing table, quill, bookcase and piano-forte.

Although not personally in possession of a good fortune filled with Lego blocks, we are intrigued!  We located this themed Lego set on  both Amazon and Walmart websites, retailing for $79.00.


3.  Jane Austen Trivia:

In pursuit of Austen trivia, test your knowledge with Jane Austen Trivia. A pocket-sized quiz collection contains 200 cards with 400 questions. 

We purchased ours at a Brooklyn bookstore, but it's also available on the Barnes and Noble website. Retail price, $25.00.


Jane Austen-inspired books include fan fiction and reference tomes.


Books (of course) 📚📚 


Fan fiction

4. The Other Bennet Sister by Janice Hadlow

Like Jo Baker's Longbourn (BTS Tea and Tomes, November, 2025), Hadlow's novel is inspired by Austen's Pride and Prejudice and puts the spotlight on the less prominent characters of the Bennet household. While Longbourn is written from the servant's point of view, The Other Bennet Sister puts Mary, the plain, bookish middle child, front and center. 

Bonus! A BBC ten episode series based on The Other Bennet Sister is set to air in 2026.

A soon-to-be feature of BTS Tuesday Tea and Tomes, find The Other Bennet Sister at various bookstores, price ranging from $13.00 - $20.00

Reference books

5. Jane Austen's Wardrobe by Hilary Davidson

A great read for those wanting to know specifics on Austen's attire is found in Jane Austen's Wardrobe, written by dress historian, Hilary Davidson. The book details Jane's interest in fashion and the incredible amount of time spent in design and budget in days before "off the rack" was an option. It's also featured in this month's BTS Tuesday Tea and Tomes.

I was gifted this book last Christmas and our favorite NYC couple discovered it in a gift store in Perth, Ontario. However, one need only let their "fingers do the walking" to shop online for this handsome hardcover. Amazon and Barnes and Noble list it at $35.00


6. Jane Austen's Bookshelf

Published just this year, Jane Austen's Bookshelf by Rebecca Romney examines the authors that influenced Jane's own novels. Romney, a rare book dealer, highlights eight writers whose work was read by Austen, including Ann Radcliff and Frances Burney. Jane Austen's Bookshelf also theorizes why these novelists did not achieve the notoriety of Austen whose rock-star status continues to surge some two centuries later. 

Another delightful gift received this month, retail price per the book jacket is $29.99. (Watch for this book to also be featured in a 2026 BTS Tea and Tomes)


Tea Towels đź§Łđź§Ł


The Jane Austen Centre in Bath sells this exclusive tea towel, but selling out fast.


Don't throw in the tea towel just yet. There's still fancy cloths to obtain before Christmas (and, if it comes later, just take the quill and impart "gift to follow" on parchment to the destined recipient).


7. Jane Austen tea towel:  Going, going, . . .get going!.  

Exclusive to the Jane Austen Centre in Bath, this tea towel commemorates the 250th Birthday of Jane Austen. The supply is running low per our last look, so act fast if this is the towel you fancy. It's listed on the Centre's website at $20 US (not including shipping).


Shopping at Bath's Jane Austen Centre gift shop, 2023


If the inventory is depleted by the time you log on, we still recommend a browse through the site. We were at the Jane Austen Center in 2023 and thoroughly enjoyed the visit - gift shop and all.

8. Excellent boiled potatoes:  

The Collins Cousin Cafe towel we snagged back in March is still available on Amazon for under $16.00, with a potential arrival of December 24.


Support the banal with this most excellent tea towel.



Sure to please the fans of the Pride and Prejudice film adaption from 2005, this towel and Mr. Collins extoll the virtue of the most excellent boiled potatoes at the Bennet table. Like Mr. Collins, we see no disgrace in banality.



Pick up the latest TeaTime at Barnes and Noble or TeaTime's website




TeaTime and Jane Austenđź“•đź«–

9. November/December issue of TeaTime Magazine

Available at various bookstores and always at TeaTime Magazine's website, this quick "get" is the November/December issue of TeaTime which features not only scrumptious afternoon tea recipes and lovely afternoon tea rooms, but our visit to NYC's Morgan Library to view their Jane Austen Exhibit held this past summer.

TeaTime Nov/Dec 2025 features our article on The Morgan's Austen Exhibit


Whether celebrating a milestone birthday like Jane or taking part in any one of the joyous holidays of the season, we at Barb's Tea Service wish you the merriest of times with family and friends and a cup of tea cheer!


Happy Birthday, Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and a Merry New Year!


Tuesday, December 16, 2025

Tuesday Tea and Tomes: Jane Austen's Wardrobe


Jane Austen's Wardrobe by Hilary Davidson

On the occasion of Jane Austen’s 250th birthday, it feels only fitting that this Tuesday’s tome celebrates what went into clothing the beloved author of six novels, including Pride and Prejudice. Jane Austen’s Wardrobe, written by dress historian Hilary Davidson, offers a comprehensive guide to the gowns, coats, undergarments, and accessories Austen would have worn during the Regency era.

Published in 2023, Davidson’s book draws on exhaustive research and Austen’s own letters—most often to her sister, Cassandra—to provide an intimate glimpse into the author’s closet (shelves included!). We discover not only what Austen wore, but also her keen interest in design. Though not a fashion leader, she remained attuned to trends and took delight in selecting new attire.

Expanding one’s wardrobe in Austen’s world was no simple task. Clothing was custom-made, and considerable time was devoted to every detail of design, from fabric and style to embellishments.

Davidson organizes the book much like a wardrobe itself, with sections ranging from gowns to accessories, all richly illustrated with photographs and drawings.


Austen's ring is back at Chawton, 2012
Rachel plays piano-forte at Chawton, 2011



Among Austen’s accessories is her turquoise ring, now housed at the Jane Austen House in Chawton, England, where daughter, Rachel and I visited in 2011. A testament to her taste for simple elegance, the ring is nearly as famous today for its brief ownership by American singer Kelly Clarkson. The full tale of international intrigue is recounted in Jane Austen’s Wardrobe and in the November/December issue of TeaTime Magazine, where this BTS blogger covered the Morgan Library’s Jane Austen exhibit earlier this year.


TeaTime Nov/Dec issue: Morgan Library and the turquoise ring (and more!)



I was fortunate to receive Jane Austen’s Wardrobe last Christmas from our favorite New York couple, my son and daughter-in-law, Matt and Jenna. The gift was met with great approbation, and I can assure you it will bring equal felicity to any Austen enthusiast on your gift giving list - be it holiday or birthday!

Happy 250th Birthday to Jane Austen!



Sunday, December 14, 2025

Barb's Tea Service 60th Podcast: Diamond milestone brings friends and surprises!


Chris and Barb Gulley surprised by dear friends Rik and Carol D. with balloons and bubbly.


In Bridgerton terms, Barb's Tea Service was the diamond of its podcast season, marking an exciting milestone:  60 episodes recorded at ONTV Studios.

We planned our topics, our tea and our attire, but what we didn't anticipate was a surprise visit by our dear friends, and fellow podcasters, Rik and Carol D., who arrived just before recording with congratulatory balloons and a bottle of bubbly.  What a delightful way to toast our 60th podcast!




In our 30 minutes, we talked Royals and Jane Austen's 250th birthday



Like our 50th “Golden” podcast earlier this year, we honored this milestone with its anniversary counterpart: Diamond. While we’re always open to a little polish, the true gems of this journey are the ONTV staff who encourage and assist us, and the friends who continue to support our podcast adventure.



Chris, dapper "arm candy" donned the bow tie for the occasion.


Milestones we showcased on our milestone:

  • Queen Elizabeth II’s Diamond Anniversary (2012) and, just three years later, her historic achievement of surpassing Queen Victoria as the longest-reigning English monarch. We were in London in September 2015, touring Buckingham Palace, when QEII broke the record (though not as guests at the private gala!).

  • Jane Austen’s 250th birthday (December 16). We’ve been celebrating Austen all year with themed teas, festivals, and even a feature in TeaTime Magazine on the Jane Austen Exhibit at New York City’s Morgan Library.


Barb accessorized with diamond bling for the big 6-0!



And more!

In the spirit of season, we also shared some of the British Royals Christmas traditions from Darren McGrady, the Royal Chef and a sprinkle of Meghan Markle's Holiday Special.


Watch & Celebrate With Us 📺

Catch the full BTS Diamond Podcast on Barb’s Tea Service’s YouTube channel or ONTV.

A heartfelt thank you to our followers, friends, and the ONTV staff. As we love to say: please, stay tuned!


Monday, December 8, 2025

A Holiday with Michael Aram: From Serendipi-Tea to Snowmen

Barb of Barb's Tea Service with Michal Aram, 2015


We met Michael Aram a decade ago and we were instant fans. 

Serendipi-tea at Somerset Mall . . . 

Ten years ago, a chance encounter at Somerset Mall's Macys introduced us to the artistry of Michael Aram. My son Matt and I were Christmas shopping when we heard he was hosting a meet-and-greet. I hadn’t known his name before, but one look at his biscuit tray designs and I was hooked. That day marked the beginning of a lasting admiration for his work. (see BTS Blog story, Michael Aram, American Artist with India Influences)


Michal Aram ornaments, new this year, dapper snowman.


This Year’s Holiday Treasures

For this December's holiday gift exchange with my cousins, I chose a whimsical snowman ornament - new this year! - tipping his hat inside a charming snow globe. It’s the kind of piece that makes you smile every time you see it, and it perfectly captures Aram’s knack for blending playfulness with elegance.


The Palace Gold Tea Set
The Butterfly Ginkgo Teapot


🍵 Gifts for Tea Enthusiasts

Michael Aram’s artistry extends far beyond ornaments. His handcrafted tea sets are a dream for anyone who loves the ritual of tea:

  • The Palace Gold Tea Set
    Inspired by Moghul palaces, this radiant gold set transforms teatime into a regal experience. At $2,500, it’s a true heirloom piece. (Yes, you may call me Lady Glencoe when I serve from it!)

  • The Butterfly Ginkgo Porcelain Teapot
    A more accessible treasure at $100, this porcelain teapot accented with brass evokes the delicate beauty of butterfly-kissed ginkgo leaves. Sculptural, poetic, and perfect for elevating everyday tea. (Lady Glencoe still applies here, of course.)

🎨The Artist Behind the Magic

Michael Aram Wolohojian, born in Providence, Rhode Island, studied art history at Bates College and fine art in Florence. His journey led him to India, where he immersed himself in traditional metalworking techniques like sand casting and hand forging. That blend of history, craftsmanship, and imagination shines through in every piece — whether it’s a snowman ornament or a gilded tea set.


📍 Meet Michael Aram

For those of you interested in meeting Michael Aram in person like we did, this month he will be in West Palm Beach and Bocas Raton, Florida. Check his website, Micheal Aram, for details.

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🎄 Whether you’re gifting a dapper snowman or a butterfly teapot, Michael Aram’s creations remind us that artistry can turn even the simplest rituals into moments of wonder.


Saturday, November 29, 2025

Thanksgiving turkeys, tablescapes and traditions - remain, refresh, or remove?

Thanksgiving Day turkeys, uninvited, visit our backyard -not for dinner, but close.



This year, we had turkey for Thanksgiving—though not the kind you get at Kroger's. Instead, we were greeted by an invasion of wild turkeys in our backyard. These uninvited guests didn’t linger long, which was just as well, since we had a proper invitation to join our extended family for a traditional holiday feast.

That seasonal repast was everything one hopes for: excellent company, delicious stuffing, rich gravy, pumpkin pies, tart cranberries, a nouveau (to moi)  green bean casserole, and—don’t tell our feathered intruders—a perfectly roasted turkey.

At Chez Gulleys, Thanksgiving dinner is usually prepared by my husband, Chris, our resident gourmet chef. My contribution tends to be a dry stuffing (redeemed by an artfully decorated tablescape). This year, however, we had the rare treat of being guests, and it was wonderful.

We did bring a customary dish to pass—my first-ever green bean casserole. Despite a last-minute ingredient panic, it turned out far tastier than my stuffing, and I was relieved to report success. That small victory led Barb’s Tea Service to ponder: which holiday traditions should remain, need a refresh or an all-out removal?

Just in time, Southern Living published “Eight Traditional Holiday Etiquette Rules Experts Say No Longer Apply.” We selected five that focus on dining and added our own BTS notes.





Fine china or paper are acceptable. Bonus: disposables can provide meaning & easy clean up.




1. Assigned Seats:

Once a hallmark of formal dinners (and yes, we still own nameplate holders), assigned seating is fading. Modern gatherings lean toward relaxed, open seating that encourages mingling—and, if you’re strategic, the best view of the big screen for the Detroit Lions game. This year, if your chair lacked a good view, consider yourself fortunate.

2. The Kid’s Table:

Experts suggest loosening the reins here: a multi-generational table can build lasting memories. We’ve used the “kid’s table” for years, but when those seated there are - or pushing - forty, can we still call it that? (Asking for some millennials we know.)

3. Fine China:  Holiday tablescapes no longer require fancy china. As etiquette professional Maralee McKee notes: “You [the host] decide how formal or informal you want the event to be…whether you’d like to use your heirloom china or the adorable plates you spotted at the local paper goods shop, feel free to do so.” We’d add: eco-friendly disposables make cleanup blissfully easy.




Green bean casserole suits my culinary skills:  few ingredients, easy prep.



4. Just One Cook in the Kitchen:  Some hosts prefer to handle all the cooking, and that’s fine if understood. But preparing food, drinks, dĂ©cor, and setup is a heavy lift. A gentle reminder: offer to contribute, whether a dish or a beverage. Your host will likely know what’s missing and suggest something that complements the menu.


Pro tip:  few ingredients can be misleading. Count before you bake!


For me, that meant green bean casserole. With minimal prep and few ingredients, it suited my culinary skills. (We used Campbell’s cream of mushroom soup—still a tasty comfort food classic despite a recent executive’s commentary that landed him in “hot-water soup” and eventually “canned.”) Pro tip: buy the right number of cans the first time to avoid a frantic grocery run.



Denim paired with bow tie equals comfort & style, admired by all - including pups.
 


5. Holiday Dress Codes:  Etiquette expert Christine Carmichael notes that strict dress codes have given way to casual joy. She suggests ditching the tuxedo for attire "that screams, I’m here to celebrate, not attend a black-tie circus.” Bottom line, Carmichael advises to dress in a way that reflects the specific event's tone.

Firstly, to that we say, we're not in favor of anything that "screams", preferring attire that my just raise the volume slightly. Secondly, we’d add be comfortable, but stylish. Ditch the jogging pants, but don’t be afraid of the bow tie.


Our Own Rule

To these five, we add one tradition that never goes out of style: gratitude. Thanksgiving is about family and friends, those with whom we literally and figuratively break bread. We’re thankful for everyone who visits Barb’s Tea Service today and throughout the year. As one charming Thanksgiving plate reminds us, we are “blessed and grateful”—even with a shortage of green beans and a non-victorious Lions game.



Tuesday, November 25, 2025

Gilmore Girls 25th Anniversary Part 3: Celebrate the holidays in Stars Hollow with festive decor - and, if dreams come true - an Emily Gilmore Tea!

Dragonfly Inn in WB's Stars Hollow offers Emily Gilmore afternoon tea.


Smelling Snow in Stars Hollow and Detroit


Like Lorelai Gilmore, we smell snow—that magical signal in Stars Hollow and, yes, even Detroit—that the fragrant aromas of the holiday season are quickly approaching. It’s time to deck the gazebo with holly, string lights outside the Inn, and trim the tree. To capture the festive mood and Gilmore Girls charm this year, we’ve had help from Hallmark, Amazon, and—if dreams really do come true—a trip to Stars Hollow courtesy of Warner Bros. Studio, complete with tea at the Dragonfly Inn.

As noted in our last two blogs, Gilmore Girls 25th Anniversary Part 1 and Part 2, there’s plenty happening to mark this milestone year. With Christmas, Hanukkah, and other holidays only days away, let’s start with some easy-to-find Gilmore Girls dĂ©cor to celebrate both the season and the Silver Anniversary of our beloved Stars Hollow.


Hallmark mini ornaments, assortment of items from Luke's Diner




Festive Finds for Fans

Hallmark Ornaments: This year’s collection includes the Stars Hollow sign, the town gazebo, and a miniature trio from Luke’s Diner—a to-go cup, Luke’s logo sign, and the iconic “No Cell Phones” notice (remember, it was the year 2000).

Amazon Baubles: Alongside the Hallmark minis, I found a sweet and simple “I Smell Snow” ornament—perfectly understated, just like the Gilmore Girls themselves.




Advent Calendar: Available on Amazon and the Warner Bros. online shop, the Gilmore Girls advent calendar offers twelve days of treats leading up to the big holiday. At just over $100, it’s a splurge, but one within reach for fans eager to count down in true Stars Hollow style.


Starting this December, WB Studios offers visitors a tour of Stars Hollow, decked out for the holidays.



A Holiday Wish: Stars Hollow Itself

At the very top of the wish list? Stars Hollow itself. In true Dorothy-like fashion, we at BTS will wish upon a Stars (Hollow) and wake up where Luke serves coffee and the Dragonfly Inn hosts afternoon tea.
From December 18 through January 2026, Warner Bros. Studio is offering tours of the Stars Hollow set decorated for the holidays. Guests can stroll through Lorelai’s house, sip coffee at Luke’s Diner, and enjoy themed meals and beverages at the Dragonfly Inn—including afternoon tea.

Tea at the Dragonfly

The Dragonfly Tea Room, described by WB as the place “where steeped tea meets Stars Hollow charm,” is irresistible.
•  Traditional Tea ($50 per person): Choice of tea, sweets and savories, scones with clotted cream, lemon curd, and house-made jams.
•  Emily Gilmore Tea Experience (+$25): All of the above, plus sparkling wine, seasonal soup, pasta salad, and wildflower honey for your scones.

Gifts for Every Gilmore

From under $5 to $125 and beyond, there’s plenty for Gilmore Girls fans on your holiday list this anniversary year. But for those who truly need to know (yes, Rory-Rachel 2026, I’m looking at you), nothing tops a trip to Stars Hollow—smelling snow and sipping tea at the Dragonfly Inn.

Gilmore Girls Advent Calendar




Closing Note
Happy Holidays to all you Lorelais, Rorys, Emilys, and Richards. May your journeys across the rainbow lead you straight to Stars Hollow.